he is 7 years older than me i'm 18 and i'm going to university and he wanted me to married.
i took his number and 1st chated with him in yahoo messenger but then told him to leave me alone. i didn't want to loss myself so soon? did i do correctly? or no? he insistes to have a meet with me but i said no...is it true or no?
(i don't have any boyfriend)
2007-01-28 06:18:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He sounds psycho. If someone wants to marry you without barely knowing you, that is just kind of scary.
Get your education finished before marriage so you enter it on equal footing.
2007-01-28 06:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing, think about you and your further is a man that 7 years older than you in it? If you don't have a boyfriend now than it best that way for now, finish your school don't get detracted with boyfriends right now, maybe just have friends that's OK for now, there no need to rush into anything or be pressured you have plenty of time, keep up the good work the sky the limited.
2007-01-28 06:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by Christian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You met some drooling psychotic in a book store, 4 minutes later he proposes marriage, and you are having DOUBTS about did you do the right thing by not marrying him or meeting him?
Of COURSE you are smart to stay away!!!
Go right ahead and meet him, if you want the police to find your decapitated burned torso out in the desert somewhere.
How can anyone who is headed for college be so naive? DO not talk to this person in any way. He's a f*cking nut case! You will meet TONS of guys in college. Don't believe the bullsh*t lies *they* tell either just to get in your panties. Take your time, get to know people, THEN hump like rabbits. But at least avoid the "Hello - will you marry me?" types.
GEEZUS.
2007-01-28 06:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would put off boyfriends and dating for a few years - at least until you learn how to spell. What is that university you attend???
2007-01-28 06:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by thetruthteller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it is nice to be loved and if he said marriage why not? u do not like him? if not then stop playnig you may get in to trubbles later on .
but if you like him then he should meet your parents to make things right "engagement till u finish ur university" do not be shy to tell your mom she will advice if he is a good guy
2007-01-28 06:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did exactly right. He just wanted to have sex with you. Tell him you don't want to be with anyone until you finish school and set your messenger so he can't see when you are online.
2007-01-28 06:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long did you know him? say no if you just met him cause he is probably planning to do something to you
2007-01-28 06:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldnt marry him if you dont want to most people say follow your heart i say follow your brain what does it say
2007-01-28 06:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, date him for a while and get to know him...
2007-01-28 06:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool, I love bookstores! was it barnes and nobles?
2007-01-28 06:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋