You have a dream, one that you might not tell anyone, but its there deep down nonetheless, and you are working towards it, or hoping for it to come about or pretending it doesn't exist...Why? Fear. Fear that once you start to do what it takes to achieve your dreams you will fail or you will succeed (yep fear of success is a plausable deterant). Knowing this, what do you do with your fear? How will you fight against it to move closer to your goal?
2007-01-28 05:49:39 · 6 answers · asked by Erika B 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There's an old axiom that goes. "how old will you be if you go to school and get your degree" followed by " how old will you be if you don't go to school and get your degree?" The answer is the same , the only difference is the decison of the individual to pursue their dream or not. Will you look back at a later time and wonder what if I had only followed my dream? If the answer is yes, then damn the torpedoes and chase that star girl. Yea you may fail but so what, ask Thomas Edison how many times he struck out before he found something that worked!. In the words of Yoda in Star Wars " There is no try" "either do or do not. Make life simpler on yourself and believe in you. All the Best xo
2007-01-28 06:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by southforty1961 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have to worry about creating my own fear to hinder myself from achieving my dreams. This administration in the White House is doing enough. Federal tax increases on student loans, high tuition hikes, yep....the only thing I can do is protest through my elected officials and hope for the best !
2007-01-28 14:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fear is a necessary feeling in our lives, a survival mechanism if you will. Everyone says that in order to get past your fears you must face them. While this is true, I have found that for the most part our fears come in the form of," what if's" and my solution is to play them out till the end.
2007-01-28 14:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by SUPERSTAR X 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Admitting your fear is the first thing you need to do in order to accomplish your dreams, or goals. I use short term goals to accomplish my long term goals. Don't let fear stand in your way. failure is not an option if it is something that you really want.
2007-01-28 13:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by cosmic beauty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you do is aknowledge the fear and say... you know i know that i feel that way, but that doestn have to hinder my progress in my dream. maybe its a scary thing, but i´m brave, and i will plow on through!
2007-01-28 13:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by the Bruja is back 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use the fear of failure. If I don't do ____________, then I will not achieve my dreams and will have failed.
2007-01-28 13:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋