2007-01-28 05:37:47 · 19 answers · asked by snozzleberry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
u can love everyone but u just be in love with only one
2007-01-28 05:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone is about them and what is best for them, not about you at all.
Being in love is all about yourself and your feelings and your needs, not really about the person you are infatuated with other than the fact that somehow you wish they would fulfill all of your wants and needs that you place on their shoulders.
Being in love is a very nasty business when it isn't working. The best thing ever when it is working. It helps if you are both in love with each other and love each other..also you should both be working off the same rule book.
2007-01-28 13:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love will drive you crazy you will dispare when your not with them.You wake up and they are the first thing you think about and the last thing you think about before you sleep.I think that being in love can also be agonising.You can't eat or sleep but then I think that might be border line obbsessive!!!..I think when you find your self "in love" with a person its just the beginning of what could turn out to be a stronger type of love.In love comes close to in lust.Generaly I would call "in love" INFATUATION.But it could become a stong love.
I love my 2 children and I would die for them this is a powerful love that I could never feel for any other person in the world.I love my sisters and my mum.Another kind of love.
Beware who you give your love to though it can be replaced with bitterness and resentment Love is blind....all love is blind.
2007-01-28 16:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by cinders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love with someone means ...without even having to think about it, their needs come first. Even if it means you sacrifice something. You automatically consider their feelings and needs before your own when making decisions. Complete and total respect, trust and honesty. You'd rather die then have them feel discomfort.
Loving someone means...... you would be hurt if something bad happened to them, but you'd eventually manage to go on with your life. You try to think of their feelings, but what you want is more important. You'd do anything for them, if you're not busy.
2007-01-28 13:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by adondeesta1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me loving someone means that you love them as a person, like you'd love a family member or something. IN love with someone means that you love them in a romantic way.
2007-01-28 13:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jenniphur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving someone is wanting only good things for them, not to be hurt or harmed and to have a great life. Being in love is giving those things to them. I still love my ex, however it is very difficult to spend even five minutes with her.
2007-01-28 13:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by wheeldave2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love your mom, your dad, your brothers & sisters and even your friends, but when your "In Love" you won't be able to stop thinking about that person. You won't be able to wait to see them. You will get all nervous and excited at the same time. You want to share your day with him/her. You want to be with them because they make you feel good about yourself. You can't help but smile. It's everything good that you can't explain. And, if you have a disagreement, you will get over it because it really doesn't matter compared to the love you feel.
2007-01-28 13:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres the answer I got from my grandma when I asked her that exact same question, she told me that when you sit down all by yourself and think about your future five or ten or fifteen years down the road just think about the things you want and plan on having and if that person is there without you having to put them there and they are just there then you are "in love" and not just "loving " them, its like previewing your own destiny type thing.
2007-01-28 13:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by JoJo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone...
your parents, siblings, children, and sometimes husband or wife after many years if you lose that "connection" and become roommates raising kids together.
In Love...
You boyfreind/girlfriend, fiance, husband/wife when you feel a strong connection around them, can't get them off of your mind, would do anything they asked you to do, would enjoy doing things that normally you wouldn't enjoy doing because it makes them happy or feel good, feel like you are floating everytime you kiss them, touch them, look into their eyes and see them smile, and make love to them, get motivation to look better and be a better person for them, and feel like your heart is empty and your body is sad if you ever lose them. You know you can never forget them.
2007-01-28 13:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the difference between loving someone and being in love with some one , mmmmmm i don't no how,s about loving someone in your family is not going to cost as much financially as falling in love i would say the honey moon period is the costly beginning , of hard times to come
2007-01-28 13:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Tony 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋