When your close male friend asks you casually in the middle of a conversation "what will it take for you to fall out of love with me" does that really mean that he believes i have feelings for him, or would it be just a little joke?
It was out of the blue...we joke a lot but none of the jokes involve anything about being attracted to one another....
2007-01-28 05:27:36 · 30 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like he's trying to get you to say you are in love with him. Otherwise how could you fall out? Tell him what it would take would be first to fall in love, then find he had lied to her about anything he said since the beginning that he did not confess right now. Right now.
If he takes the opportunity to come clean, you get to evaluate how serious he must be to be willing to confess. If he says he has not lied to you since the day you met, he swears, evaluate him on that basis. Do you believe it? If you do, that's a man to trust, and honey, there ain't many of them around, and you may as well go ahead an fall in love with him!
2007-01-28 05:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was a joke and it caught you off-guard because you do have feelings for him or considered being in a relationship with him because you are so close. But if you never told him, he has no idea. He could have a pretty good idea now based on how you reacted to him though. Let it go or it might change your relationship if you worry about it too much. Next time have a witty comeback so you don't tell on yourself.
2007-01-28 05:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Out of the blue?
Do you show any interest that he would've taken as you being attracted to him?
Tell him that you aren't really interested in him.
It's fine if ur paranoid, an average girl would be.
If u could remember, wat kind of way did he ask u that? After that, has he been doing anything? Trying to stay out of your way? If he has, he may have been serious. If he's regular, it may just have been a joke.
2007-01-28 05:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you!!! Males are pathetic....no offense guys, but when it comes to the absolute crunch men have to make a slight joke because they haven't got the bottle to say something!!
Ask him straight out..otherwise you may never know.....or if you don't like him in that way make something up that you like another guy, and then he probably wont mention it again!!!!
2007-01-28 05:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be his way of hinting that he has feelings for you but is afraid to let you know for fear that it my ruin your friendship. Best way to find out is ask. It may be ackward but a close friendship should be able to survive it. Also, I would ask f2f not on phone or email. Just try to put him at ease when you ask in case it is him who has developed feelings. You could put it back on yourself, for instance,"Hey, you know the other day when we were talking and you said. . . ., well I just had this wierd moment and was wondering if I made you feel uncomfortable somehow."
2007-01-28 05:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's truly just a friend to you, then go on, ask him why he asked.
Could be that he thinks that you are and is warning you gently, or who knows with men; It could be that he's testing the water.
And could be that he was just being an idiotic friendly male. As usual!xx
2007-01-28 05:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can have enormous egos. He has obviously concocted a fantasy involving you. He is the one that loves YOU. You may not be able to remain friends with him now that you know his inner feelings. He is trying to move to the next level with you. Good luck
2007-01-28 05:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Roberta B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by rotchford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a joke...You should of said ahhhh I could never fall out of love with u.Your one of my closest friends. This way u have set him straight in a nice way just in case he thinks different.Good luck hon
2007-01-28 05:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others, I believe he likes you. He may have said this to see what your response would be. Either "but I can't", or "but I don't love you!" so that he could then decide whether or not to pursue the relationship on that level.
2007-01-28 05:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by Brandiibaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋