2007-01-28 05:07:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you should have divorced him,...all girlfriend, wife takes all if he truly loves you.
2007-01-28 05:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I think there are a lot more issues leading up to divorce. I don't see how your husband can be considered controlling when you say it's his will. He can give it to anyone he pleases, as can you. Besides that, 'what is so wrong with getting a check every month? It appears that YOU have a hidden agenda! The man isn't even dead and you're planning ways to spend the money. I would divorce you too!
2007-01-28 13:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he would divorce you over something so simple, let him go and make a plan for financial independence now. Don't let him control you with whether or not he will give you money and how it will be allotted to you. If he would do such a thing in the first place he either thinks you will blow all the money at once and is actually thinking of your best interest, which is a good thing BUT on the other hand it could be a way to control you when he's gone so you have limited access to the money. Either way it shows me you have accomplished very little for yourself independent of him which is a must whether he's here or gone. Start to do something for you so you don't need his money in the first place.
2007-01-28 13:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How long have you been married? Is there a legitimate reason why you are so concerned over his will? And, what is wrong with a monthly check?
It seems as though he doesn't trust you.
2007-01-28 13:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by longleggedfirecracker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you're planning TOO much for his demise. That's a bit like having a wife who's more concerned about how she'd fair in the outcome of a divorce...as though she were planning more on THAT than their actual lives together. I have a mother-in-law that's like that!...thankfully, my wife is NOT.
Sorry, can't say I blame him.
2007-01-28 13:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by bradxschuman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He must have had his reasons and has reasons for what he is doing now. No one here can see the whole relationship or financial picture. You had best seek legal counsel, though I hate to feed the lawyers.
2007-01-28 13:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by DrB 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer if you don't think the monthly check amount
is enough...Be careful though..
If he is a wealthy man, you will probably lose...
After all, it is his will.....
2007-01-28 13:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a dirty divorce has started
2007-01-28 13:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by Emily L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's his will. You shouldn't have anything to do with it. Something more must be going on if he's filing for divorce.
2007-01-28 13:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What? Is he a control freak? He's going to find it difficult to find an attorney who will go along with that kind of ridiculousness---unless, of course, you are referring to a "trust". In that case, he is trying to help you avoid future tax problems.
The divorce thing, though, is odd. It leads me to believe "control freak". Get a good attorney who will threaten to take 70%.
2007-01-28 13:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
what can we tell u , if he really wants out it will happen.. instead of getting his money later, u get it now ..as the fact is, half of everything is urs.. his 401k, the house (if u own one) the bank accounts ect.. so he's actually screwing himself now instead of later..
2007-01-28 13:17:54 · answer #11 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋