Just recently I witnessed a murder(it was reported to the police)and the murderer threatened to kill me when he gets out of jail. I have had lots of thoughts about death. Not anything about killing myself, but just actually thinking about what happens when people die. It also doesn't help that last summer my grandmother passed away.
My parents have brought me to a phycologist but I'm not sure it is helping. I have dreams where the murderer is coming to my home and breaking in, and then shoots me. This has been going on for about 3 months.
Please,if anyone has been through the same thing, HELP!
P.S. I am 12 years old.
2007-01-28 05:06:29 · 18 answers · asked by Minne Mouse 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well, from what i can gather, your either 12 or 16, and are expecting a boy. please don't post questions to get others sympathy if it did not happen, if it did, then you probably have PSD. you need to tell your therapist about it, and the thoughts of death. if you think about killing yourself, get on the phone right now and tell your therapist. it takes time to heal, and you need lots of counseling and maby medications
2007-01-29 10:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents they need to see a lawyer as well. He will be able to tell them and you what protections you have - and you do have protection available. For example, I believe that you can make sure that plenty of people in law enforcement and the court system know about how this person threatened you. It's not enough that it was mentioned and written down somewhere in court proceedings. A lawyer would be able to make sure the fact of the threat was reported to a lot of people, including your neightborhood police.
Also, the lawyer could make sure that you would have to be told if and when this man ever did get out jail. Then you would know to have the local police alerted to that fact. You could ask them to keep extra vigilant because of that fact.
You could also have your calls screened with your message machine. That way, if this guy ever tried to get in touch with you, it would be recorded.
There are many things like that a lawyer would suggest. But mainly, I think you need to trust that if you go out in a group, you will feel safer than if you are alone. At least until you have a sense whether this guy is still around.
If this psychologist is not helping you much, tell him. Ask him to refer you to another psychologist who has more experience with this kind of realistic fear.
Show your parents this and the other replies you get on this website. Print them off.
2007-01-31 21:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing! I am so, so sorry, and you're so young! I really feel like crying. I am so sorry.
Did you tell the police? If not, I WILL tell them. Keep secure. DO NOT go out without your parents. You are in danger. You need to be safe. LOCK the doors. Ask your parents if they will get those security things for your house.
2007-01-28 14:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you should do: Take a copy of this letter and any other writing you do to your counselor and have him/her read it. The counselor cant help if you dont tell them all the stuff -if you cant you can write it down. Of course you are scared a murderer threatened you. Talk, Talk and Talk some more to your counselor-right now thats your best option.
2007-01-28 13:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well tell the police if you havnt already and dont worry by the time he gets out of jail he wont recanize you die ur hair get a new ahir style change urself he wont know...but make sure you watch out for him and dont be scared ur 12 ur parents will be there for you and when he gets out you will be alot older you will change alot from 12-whatever and maybe going through jail will change his mind on killing somone esle...you'll be fine!...
2007-01-28 13:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by in_L-O-V-E_w/daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh I am so sorry that happened, the thing to remember is that we are all part of Gods plan and we can't really do anything about it. That is horrible, don't worry though because your family loves you and God loves you or it would have been you, and it wasn't. Just pray for God to help you get through it.
2007-01-29 16:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the police about this threat if the killer doesnt kno ur name or anyone that might kno who u r then suggest to ur parents u move maybe the killer will get a long long sentence and might never be let out
2007-01-28 20:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by eBeth rocks!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u poor thing!i am very sorry!
tell ur parents,pscholygist,and police about this!tell ur parents to lock the doors,get security cameras in ur house or if u will feel safer move to a bigger city or state or dye ur hair do something diffrent w/ ur hair!
Hope u feel better!
2007-01-28 14:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by sad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the police and get you something to protect yourself somehow but he probably never get out so don't worry yourself to death because of him...How is he telling you he is going to kill you after he get out???
2007-01-28 13:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Due 3/3/10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the phycologist more often tell ur parents o poor thing I think I would be scared also!tell ur parents about this!
2007-01-28 13:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by short stuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋