I would think that a part of premarital counseling should include sessions of intimate relations. Shouldn't a couple try a few nights in bed to be prepared for "the real thing" ?
2007-01-28 05:05:41 · 10 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes where I'm from, it's called "dating"
2007-01-28 05:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by marie 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i don't think a dress rehersal is necessary. the marital bed is going to be special, especially if the bride or both parties are virgins. we all figure it out in the end. the parents should discuss in a delicate manner with little detail what will happen as to not frighten the couple or if one has the experience they can discuss it on their own w/o actually doing anything. what's the point of getting married if your gonna be doing it anyway. marriage is a comittment between a man and woman and GOD. which makes it a special occassion not something to be entered into lightly. premaital sex is overrated. sure wish i had waited until i was married what's the rush. think of the consequences. what if a prehnacy occurs and now you'll gave an illegitimate child is it really worth it. have respect for yourself and your partner. take care.
2007-01-28 13:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely No. Marriage is a relation. A relation for reproduction. Every animal in thee world has its own rule for partners. Reproduction is based mainly for the best offspring and so the females of any animal or plant will always have th option to chose the best partner. Lion, Elephant, Gorilla .. all these animals will have sex with the best of the lot. As far as the human beings are concerned, the only animal who ( there is an exception of dolphin also I think)involve in sex for pleasure in addition to reproduction, there existed an anarchy in sex. the society ruled and decided on terms of marriage by which every man and woman can unite. The customs objected to adultery. It upheld virginity before marriage. The present day life started overlooking all these conditions. More divorces started. Orphans are created. My friend. there is no need for training in sex. Who teaches animals to do sex? Have you ever seen an elephant doing it? Does he take any training? Black widow spider females allow the male to do sex only once in its life time. Then kills the male and eats it. Want to be a Spider?
2007-01-28 13:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by atom45 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's the real thing every time you do it. If they have trouble figuring it out, then they can get relations counseling after they get married.
2007-01-28 13:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its totally depending on the couple if the couple love sex that much then they should be doing it.
But if the couple is not into sex that much then its totally up to them.
2007-01-28 13:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by CarZ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if you have waited this long—may as well make your wedding celebration really special.
2007-01-28 13:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hope you are getting marry for the right reason youre marry the girl of your dream not youre booty call wake up
2007-01-28 13:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is absurd,why should the couple even think about it in the first place
2007-01-28 13:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by sm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, do not do that! The honeymoon will be more special if you don't. If you do, you dishonor her and God!
2007-01-28 13:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by shepherd 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
eww no..u need to just go with wat happens
2007-01-28 13:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Austin S. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋