looking for websites for adopted people to share views ect?

Answer 1

There are lots to choose from, try your local Post Adoption centre. I know the one in Birmingham 0121 666 6014 late nights are Monday.
Otherwise google it and try NORCAP or PPIAS or BAAF for starters.
There are more specialised sites for mixed-heritage adoptees and those from minority faith groups.

Answer 2

cant really help with that sorry just caught my eye as both my sister and i were adopted and grew up in different families infact i never even knew she exsisted until she was twenty two !!!!!! good luck in finding what you are looking for ! also if it is any help ther is a place called birth ink they may be able to help :)