I met a bloke and fell head over heels in love with him, hes kind, funny, rich, has a fit body, we have loads in common.
Problem is, his head was shaved when we met and he waxes all of his body hair, he told me he was blonde, but hes recently come clean and admitted he actually is a natural ginger.
I cant believe he's been so dishonest and has led me up the garden path! I cant even talk to my friends about it coz they would never speak to me again if they found out i had shared bodily fluids with a ging. What should I do?
2007-01-28 04:50:15 · 42 answers · asked by ♥Tallulah♥ 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i bet his pubes are like a rusty Brillo pad.
2007-01-28 04:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it appears you are interested in someone who is kind and funny. Oh and this seems to be important to you the fact that he has money and a fit body, and what your friends think? I'm not so sure he's the one with the problem. Can you honestly say you just love him? It doesn't sound like a good match to me. It's obvious he didn't tell you about the color of his hair because he doesn't want you to not like him for his hair. And the guy must have a phobia about hair. Look the dude is into his body and appearance;age can ruin all that.
So, is this what you really want? It's ok to talk to your friends for opinions, but you need to have one of your own. You are the one with the guy not them; or maybe they want him and will tell you anything to destroy your happiness so they can have theirs. I guess your friends aren't really friends are they? Friends dont leave friends when you need them. It appears you have been talking to them about this guy as if you have something better than your neighbor has, you know, nah,nah, I have something you dont have attitude. Now you find out his hair color has a tint of grey and can't possibly take back what you said to your friends and be embarrassed that what you said to them wasn't exactly the truth. We are all not perfect. I think you should all start over and start loving each other for who you are on the inside, and not for appearance on the outside. How can you love someone from looking at the cover and not opening the book?
2007-01-28 05:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by wizardpoof 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh you are so rude, childish and sad! then again i wonder how old you are, definitely of the Danielle Lloyd genre! I am sure you wouldn't have complained if it was Mick Hucknall of Simply Red fame though! Airhead! By the way i am neither Caucasian nor a 'ging', i am black African.
2007-01-28 05:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Onyimeme 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait a minute. you are debating breaking up with a guy who sounds almost perfect for you because he isnt blonde? if all men lied about in the world was thier hair color, women would have a lot less to worry about. if that was the only thing he was dishonest about, then keep the boy, and if your friends dont understand, then they aint your friends are they?
2007-01-28 04:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the color of his hair is so important to him and you, why would you blame him for holding back that truth. Obviously it matters to you what color his hair is as much as it does to him. If you really enjoy him hang on for a real lie not a hiding an embarrassment truth. =)
2007-01-28 05:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more pills or has it been lock down on the ward already?
try to get some rest and forget your imaginary ginger friend OK
Rob.
2007-01-28 04:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder he didn't tell if this is the way you react - you stupid mare.
You give girls a bad name.
Saying your friends wouldn't speak to you shows that they are all as bad as you.
You're a disgrace - he should dump you straight away - you narrow minded cow.
Mojo
Who's ginger and proud of it..........
2007-01-28 04:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by mojorainbow1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
had a mate once who got his wife pregnant she had a bad time the whole pregnancy and when she was only 7 months gone she was rushed to the hospital . he got phone call telling him to get to hospital a.s.a.p when he got there she was in middle of delivering the child after 5 hours a nurse came out to him and asked him did he want the good news or the bad news .hit me with the bad news he said the nurse bowed her head and said im sorry but the child has ginger hair sir god no he said well whats the good news then oh she said he died ....dump him
2007-01-28 05:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by haveacigar 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Does it matter? He is ginger, and? It doesn't seriously matter. It doesn't change who he is, does it? Do you love him? If you do you would just talk to him anyway, even when he lied to you. It is very hard because i believe you can barely trust him nowadays.
2007-01-28 04:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your boyfriend lying? In bed, under the table, in the sun?
2007-01-28 05:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lying because he was ashamed of his ginger hair and was trying to impress you. he shouldn't of lied but what he lied about was just hair colour. does that really matter? if you love him you should except him as he is.
2007-01-28 05:09:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anne Nonny Mouse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋