I've been thinking about death alot....?

Question

and it really worries me cuz I'm only 15. But over the past two years of my life alot of really close people have passed including one family member to suicide. I had a dream that I was gonna die this year and I'm really scared...

Answer 1

Hey, the same thing happened to me. It can be a rough time. I looked for things to do that made other people happy and that made me feel better. Hang in there - it won't always be the way it seems right now.

Answer 2

I'm not suicidal, but when times get rough, i truly think about it and sometimes it's hard to think about anything else, and i think about death very much. But it is normal, and i'm only 12, but this is what you should keep in mind. It doesn't matter when you die, cuz it will only be in the Lord's timing. When you go, you'll only be going to a better place, heaven, of course if you deserve to go to heaven. It is scary and I understand how you feel, except the suicide part which makes it even worse for you. The best thing to do is to know, that you can't take your own life. You may have these feelings because of the extreme losses you have suffered, but just know that you are safe.

Answer 3

Well I think it's natural because when i was younger, around like eleven or twelve, i could just be sitting there and all of a sudden start thinking about death and start panicking because, not to scare you or anything, but it's inevitable (I think I spelled that wrong so let's just say unavoidable). I would just come downstairs and start crying and talking to my mom. I'm religious so i'm taught that if you're saved then you can be sure that you're going to heaven, but that doesn't mean I don't have doubts and to tell you the truth, probably two days ago, i started thinking about it again. It doesn't happen as often as it used to, but every now and again, it comes back. Just think about living your life and living it to the fullest with no regrets. Truth be told, no matter how long we put it off, we'll all end up in the same place. Just try not to think about it because trust me, i've been there, and it's really scary and not a fun thing to think about. Just try to live your life to the fullest. Sometimes, just watching the news will make me think about it, but i just think about something else.

Answer 4

My daughter who is one year younger than you had her father commit suicide and she lost her best friend, grandmother, great grandmother, and cousin. She has dreams all the time of her death and sometimes of others. She got so scared once that she hid kitchen knifes all around the house and took fencing because she thought someone would kill her. She said learning how to defend herself made the dreams lessen and not get so real. She also dose something that she enjoys to do like talking to friends and listening to music before she goes to bed that way the last thing she thinks about before she goes to bed is happy. Hopefully this works for you.

Answer 5

This is a natural thing and it is nothing to be concerned with.

Easy for me to say Huh.

It is difficult at first to come to terms with people dieing. It often comes out in our dreams.

I'll bet that you have had some pretty strange thing happen in your dreams over the past 15 years, haven't you.

How many of these things actually happened?

This dream is just like the rest, It's not going to happen either.

Love and blessings Don

Answer 6

dreams are weird my sister dremt that she was going to have twins while she was pregnant dreams are made up of all kinds of things like things that are on your mind and events through out your day week ect i dont think youll die any time soon so there is no need to worry you might talk wioth a freind about your fears some times talking helps you feelless afraid oh and dont listen to any one like the jerk off on top your life is the most valuable thing you have you may also talk to your parents about maybe seeing a counsiler no shame in that evenr one nedsto talk the only difference is a counsiler is trained on how to make some one feel beter and to ease irational fears good luck

Answer 7

There is nothing wrong with death it is just another stage of our life. We as humans believe it is the finial stage of life, I don't know if that is true or not I have never done it my self. There is really nothing that you can do to stop it or control it. It just is what it is death. So stop warring about what you can't do and work on what you can do live life to the fullest. Live it like it is your last day. and trust me your 15 years old you have a life time to live so do just live and don't look back just live.

Answer 8

Don't be scared your not just gonna die for no reason. other people have thought they are gonna die and hard times but haven't i am sorry for your loss but don't worry its just paranoia. i used to be a heavy user of cannabis witch makes your paranoia worse n i went about a year scared of death but seriously don't worry u will be fine. i haven't died and i am 16 now. you will be FINE there is nothing to kill you or hurt you apart from whats been around for the past 15 years of your life. (Hugs) lol

Answer 9

I think it's normal. I started thinking a lot about my death a couple years ago when my grandmother passed away. I don't know why. It's like I felt like I wouldn't even live another year, but I did. I think it's all anxiety. But I'm sure you're fine.
I even have a friend who constantly thinks herself about dying really soon. And she's 21.

Answer 10

I have had dozens of dreams where I have died, but I am still around! So, it doesn't mean anything.

We are all going to die someday, and none of us knows exactly when. That is why you should live each day to the fullest. Any day you live worried about death is a day that has been wasted.