ok i like my best friend who is a guy but i dont know how to tell him because were so close as friends. Iam too embarrased to tell him. How do u think he will react if i tell him..
2007-01-28 04:24:41 · 12 answers · asked by MistyFlower 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well honey,he will never know unless you tell him. Just tell him!I don't know him so I would have no idea how he would react.But there is a chance he like you too.
2007-01-28 04:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play your cards right you won't have to tell him. Try to be a little more intimate with him (a little bit at a time), like maybe sitting a little closer to him, draping your arm around his shoulder or waist, putting your hand on his arm or thigh went having a conversation. If he doesn't back away from these advances, then you can be a little more daring, like holding his hands while walking or kissing him on the cheek. If all seems well, you can kick it up another notch by kissing him goodbye with a quick peck to the lips. If he receptive towards you, you will know it by now. If all this fails, then come right out and say "I got the hots for you and want to be more than just friends."
2007-01-28 12:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by Trail Hiker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just tell him. He's a good friend so itz not like he's going to stop talking to you, and you never know he might be feeling the same way....I think he will be faltered and he'll let you know how he feels. Go for it
2007-01-28 12:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Christina G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take the chance....
yo never know what would happen!!
just take the chance!!
but, make a plan.....
for me who is from east....
i suggest you to say "i really like you....
i hope i can have a boyfriend like you, who can understand me and make me feel complete..."
than he will think....
if he likes you to be his GF, he will just catch the opportunity....
if he doent want you to be his GF, he will just offer a help to help you find a guy like him....
btw, if you want to tell him directly, tell him that you still wanna be his good and best friend though something happen between you!!
2007-01-28 12:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by citra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell you being a guy i know if you were my true friend i would be happy that you told me of your infatuation with me and i would take it in stride whether or not you get the outcome you are looking for is up to situations and timing.
2007-01-28 12:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by joe c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him & say "I like you, do you like me"? You'll never know unless you ask! Don't be embarrased!
2007-01-28 13:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by YAWN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is your BEST FRIEND, then he would probably be the only one that is qualified to answer your question. Embarrassed? Have you ever passed gas in front of this friend? What's to be embarrassed about
2007-01-28 12:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. the same thing happend to my brother he was in love with his best frien who is a girl by the way and they have been dating for almost two years now. so just do it and fast befor another girl beats you to it!
2007-01-28 12:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Vanessa Anne Hudgens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him understand what u think with a smart manner..
2007-01-28 12:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by ErAs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel, i believe he'll be shocked... but are you sure you want to do this? i mean, it might really ruin ur friendship! =/
2007-01-28 12:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by :( 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋