and they are really distracting during class there so hairy you cant see her skin and same with her legs and like i said distracting especially during gym should i tell her and if yes how
2007-01-28 03:59:06 · 26 answers · asked by xx.thousoftears.xx 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
she is only 12 years old
2007-01-28 03:59:35 · update #1
she has hairy forearms not armpits
2007-01-28 04:09:23 · update #2
she always wears longsleeves but she rolls them up to her elbow so you can see her hairy arms AND ashy elbows its nasty
2007-01-28 04:14:01 · update #3
put myself in her shoes!!! if i were her i would shave and get lotion
2007-01-28 04:14:50 · update #4
you should stop okay!!!!what do u know about her.. dont do something silly...may be she has very strict parents who do not allow her to shave...i know someone who has parents like that..and she(the girl i know) has never worn anything but full sleeves..she has even cried abt this...there is nothing that she can do..she might as well be thinking the same as u but has no choice..DON'T MAKE IT HARDER IF YOU CAN'T HELP...stay out of her business!!!
2007-01-28 04:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you silly? Hairy arms? Please, of all the psychosis we will develop in life, this girl does not need you to scar her for life.
You're kids.
1. there's nothing wrong with arm hair and when she's ready to get rid of it she will. And, that's only if she feels self conscious about it. If she doesn't, then that's her decision.
Hair arms really do not effect the price of tea in china.
2. No doubt she isn't oblivious to the hair. She does have eyes, there's probably a reason why she has it. It's none of your business whatever those reasons are. Maybe she's not allowed to shave yet, or maybe she just doesn't want to.
So stop treating her like a freak show and understand that there isn't anything inappropriate about her appearance.
But, just to remind you, it's not your place to judge her, to inform her or to even bring it up to her. It's her body, her hair and unless she lives under a rock, she's got the situation under control.
2007-01-28 04:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by karmacake 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. When someone looks very different from the rest of us, it's hard not to stare.
But what do you mean, Should you tell her? Do you suppose she doesn't know? She is probably embarrassed and agonizing over it already, and your drawing attention to it will only make her feel even worse.
Try to put yourself in her shoes! The best thing you can do is to pay no attention to it. After all, every one of us is flawed. It's just that a lot of flaws are on the inside where they can't be seen. Remember, that's where true beauty resides too.
2007-01-28 04:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by keepsondancing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not tell a 12 year old girl that. being 12 and removing hair can damage her skin. plus you should not be worried about her appearance. for you to be distracted by her hair that is on the shallow side of the situation. If she is a nice person that you think you can be friends with then be her friend not a style cop.
2007-01-28 04:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by amber/topaz1214 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants hairy armpits and legs. You don't need to tell her, I am sure she knows. You need to learn to be more comfortable around people who do not fit into your ideal of what someone should look like. Quit being shallow and let her be!
2007-01-28 04:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by miyazaki75 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its really none of your business. Very possibly her parents didnt allow her to shave yet she is only 12 That's a little young to be so vain. Stop staring and you ll see she'll start shaving when her parents think it okay.
2007-01-28 04:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by cleanfreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would telling her accomplish? It isn't like she can get a whole body hair removal treatment. She probably already feels self-conscious about the way she looks, don't do anything to rub it in.
Concentrate on a girl you ENJOY looking at and forget about it.
2007-01-28 04:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by inkantra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you wont make this rude, give her a bottle of Nair Hair Removal as a present, and a note telling her about her arms and her legs. Or just tell her to shave.
2007-01-28 04:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Gavi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
eeeewwwwwwww! she has hairy legs? maybe just ask her how long it was since she last shaved. if she says she's never shaved before, just tell her what you do and what brand razors you use.
good luck!
2007-01-28 04:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by soccer15rules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM NO! dont u think the poor girl notices that shes extremely hairy? probably! and shes probably embarassed already...dont make it worse for her..just dont look at her if its that distracting
2007-01-28 04:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋