The next day I kept thinking about it and thinking about it and asking myself "Am I a lesbian?" It got so bad that I was depressed and I had to go to the Psychologist.I felt like I was going insane. Was it obsessive Compulsive or what was it?Opinions please and no making fun of. Thanks!
2007-01-28 03:23:48 · 5 answers · asked by petuniafee 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You don't have to be a lesbian to have a dream like this. It's just that part of you is curious as to what it would be like to kiss a girl. We have so much exposure to the gay world that it's practically normal to wonder what it would be like for ourselves. Don't worry.
2007-01-28 03:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not even in wakeful state and why do you worry it for couple of years!
IT SEEMS YOUR INNER SOUL SEEKED FOR SOME “MOTHERLY CARE AND AFFECTION” FROM SOME BODY ELSE!!
THAT TIME SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN FULFILLED YOUR PSYCHOLOGICAL MOTHERLY HOOD, AND SO, YOU MIGHT HAVE KISSED HER WITH YOUR WARM LOVE AND ALL!
First of all throw out your biased concepts that lesbianism is bad, hetros only are divinely people! Things evolve from your sub-conscious urge, and it cannot be suppressed by any way, since it is biological demand arises from within!
There are hetros, homos and all other permutations and combinations in the world, from time immemorial!
That is by nature, and are mere instincts in-built from few degrees to more degrees with one’s varying human biology, circumstances and pressurizing needs!
UNLESS YOU REMOVE OUT THE THOUGHT OF SUPERIORITY THAT YOU ARE THE GREAT & LESBIANISM IS SO WORST, BUT ONCE ONLY YOUR MIND COMMITTED SOME MISTAKES, YOU WILL FOREVER BE CAUGHT IN TO THE TRAP OF GUILTY COMPLEX!
ACCEPT YOU ARE A NATURAL HUMAN BEING WITH ALL SHORTCOMINGS, BUT TRYING TO RISE HIGHER IN EACH AND EVERY GOD-GIVEN BIRTHS!
Then, there was and is no need to go to any priests and psychologist, for they too not Gods, and higher than any normal human beings!
In my opinion, lesbianism is rather good for atleast you would be more useful to your beloveds and for yourself too, than going insane and doing harms to others by pondering over your “sins committed in dreams” several years before!!
2007-01-28 12:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by yozenbalki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not shame to be a lesbian, and ur not sick if u think ur a lesbian. maybe the dream that u kissed a girl was not true, not all the dreams are true.
2007-01-28 11:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it! do you like women? if so you may be a lesbian... but just because you dreamt kissing a girl once absolutley has nothing to do with your orientation..
2007-01-28 11:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by Logical Rationalist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are probably Bi-Curious..
Not a problem...
If you ever have the opportunity you might
try a 3some with your b/f or husband and
another woman....
2007-01-28 11:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋