My friend and ber bf just broke up. I really like her ex-boyfriend but how long should i wait to make a move and still remain her best friend? (it's been a week since they broke up.)
2007-01-28 03:00:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you should wait for a few weeks, because she may need time to recover, so if u make a move then he will be around more often, and that may make her feel bad, and hurt. u will know when she feels better when she is back to her old self, and make sure that she is fine, and not looking like it only. so wait till she has moved on all the way. then talk to her bout it and say how you may have feelings for her ex and if it is ok that she go out with him, and if she says no: think would u want to ruin your friendship with your best friend over this guy?
and i am sure if u really are close friends then u will understand her and she will understand u
2007-01-28 03:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Neha B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait at least 2months then take a move and go from there. But when you are okay and ready to tell your friend go ahead so you don't louse your friend over him. Good Luck
2007-01-28 11:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should talk to your friend first...let her know you're interested. Guys aren't worth losing friends over. Then go for it.
2007-01-28 11:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her how she feels about you being his gf. If she doesn't want you to. then you should ask her if she still likes the guy and if she doesn't then it may be ok if you take him.
2007-01-28 11:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by carebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋