I am 25 years old. I'd been into university but failed at the beginning becouse I can't do the degree programme. Many of my friends are success in career, love and life now but I am still studying to get a diploma/degree to start up my life, love and career.
2007-01-28 01:55:11 · 13 answers · asked by Khamirul Bin Mataree 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I know you must feel bad.
I failed also. But went on to do more study.
The trick is to focus on the positives.
Maybe the course of study wasn't for you.
Maybe there is something better around the corner.
Sit down somewhere quiet and decide what is it you are REALLY interested in.
It doesn't matter what your friends do. Its what you do with YOUR OWN life that matters.
Use this time in your life to assess which direction you want to go in.
2007-02-03 20:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by sylvia a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please do not "judge" yourself by someone elses life situations, we are all different and unique. the gals above, have got some good ideas. I am not quite sure what college you have attended, but have you tried a community college, which can often be a more welcoming atmosphere and the studies can be somewhat "sometimes" more relaxed, to help get you into the "college" life. Trade school might be your ticket, depending on what you would like to do with your life, thus far....you also might want to get some career related work study under your belt, it depends on the career path that you have chosen..........do not give up yet, especially if this involves a dream and/or something that you are passionate about.........keep truckin............I did not start college until my kids were grown (single mom, raising two boys)........and now I'm graduating with my first degree in june.........you can do it!!!
good luck!
2007-01-28 02:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by amber 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life is not broken, you only think it is. Get your head in gear, stop the broken thoughts, and get into your degree program like you mean it and stop the damned whining. You CAN do the degree program but not by whining about it. So go do that, and in the process get a grip on what you really like doing and do it. In the process of sorting all this out your love life and career will all work out.
But Jesus H Christ, Joseph and Mary and what the hell, throw in Muhammad too if you want, stop the pity party and whining and get on with it.
2007-01-28 02:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello sir every person will get one golden opportunity but we cannot guess when it will come but for that we should wait for the good time to come and should not think negative which makes to lose our self confidence.we should lose self confidence but make it grow bcoz failure is the step of success so don't be depress and hold the until u get good time to reach to u r foot.until then do be broken be as strong as a Strong to not make it to break.
2007-02-04 20:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people can do this with hardly any thing but you are one of the popel that has to study. Pick yourself up and get moving the quicker you get this done and done right you two will be on your way. Try and get some meds (depression) to help you and you will see things better i promise.
2007-02-03 16:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are missing the mark you have gone a stray
All you need is Love.
Put the Love of God in your life and you will get everything you need to be happy! Look inside your self and find God waiting for you to ask for help...
We can have everything we need. all we need to do is ask God in side of us for it. Ask and ye shall receive... Seek and ye shall find...
It is an awaking of God with our minds in us.
We are a Body, Mind and a Spirit...
The answer to every question is in the power of belief, and follow through it, NEVER GIVE UP! As we believe it is done unto us...
AMEN, AMEN, AMEN...
2007-01-28 02:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by Infinite and Eternal Reality 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it took me 10 years to get mine....big deal
the more you struggle the more you learn to appreciate life
the people that are born with a silver spoon turn out to be similar to Abramoff
The people that struggle to get to the top turn out to be similar to R. Fiengold or Abraham Lincoln
2007-01-28 02:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Taco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing about this is that you already know what you need in life and you've experienced failure. this will help you make better decisions in the future, now you just have to figure out what you are passionate about and go for it. ive changed my interests various times going from fashion to religion and politics. you just need to find out who you are
2007-02-04 14:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not compare yourself to your friends.
Find a program that interests you, and you will have a better time with it, and you will happier with your choice.
You are still young, nobody expects you to be totally situated in your life just yet.
2007-01-28 01:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by T Time 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my 30's and I still haven't figured out what I want to do "when I grow up", relax, why do you want to keep up with the Jones', anyways?
2007-01-28 02:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by littlegirllost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋