2007-01-28 01:16:50 · 28 answers · asked by ? 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Personally I was just attracted to my husband when I met him and age had nothing to do with it!
2007-01-28 01:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Stranger In Maine™♥ (Thriller) 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I've always been drawn to the men that were in their 30's since I was 16 and fell in love with one. I really think that I can explain this by reminding you that psychology says that girls grow mentally mature faster than males. This has been tested. Sooo some girls will want a man who is still kind of a boy.. while others will be attracted to men who challenge them or who can out do them.. know what I mean? A man who is older can teach you things and can tell you about life .... I am still drawn to older men, yet I am now kind of drawn to the younger as well.... I love men all men.. LOL... so it does not matter to me anymore... I am 28 now so anyone that is 23 to 40 is fine with me! :) I shut out the 22 or 21 because that is a party age when guys are really not into being serious or anything and I dont blame them!! LOL
Personally I see it this way............
in a boys teen years he is a blossom.. he will become an apple and then suddenly he does... wow its amazing and yes they are so beautiful..... yet still green and unsure where they stand as a Man.. not yet .. men.
In the 20's guys start to redden... they begin to mature slowly but surely.. they test things, go to college, or start careers... they are sometimes still greenish and sometimes more red than others... it depends.
In their 30's men are RED. They are sure now of where they are and what they will do for their life passion.. they know what they like and dont like sensually and usually know what they need in a woman and what they are really drawn to, not just physically but mentally.
THIS is what gets women.
Maturity.
Ability to carry on a great conversation.
Humor about life, and experience.
A guiding hand.. every woman wants a guy that opens the door for her and loves her being a woman.
Thats what I know about it... hope it helps!!!
Just remember.........
in psychology SEX is the most important thing to males in a relationship... but with women communication is more important to them than sex... sex is 2nd.
So if you can really stimulate a womans mind and get her to think that you are one who can spark her imagination and her MIND... you've got her pretty interested... LOL wink.
Miz Xev
2007-01-28 09:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Miz Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well from my own personal experience some older men are alot more settled and laid back than some of the younger men. Most of them have already sewed their wild oats, so to speak and for the most part if they have children they are pretty much grown. Older men also are a little wiser.
2007-01-28 09:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Thumper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience
2007-01-28 09:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They look at older men as being more mature, experienced and established although that is not always the case.
2007-01-28 11:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by simply_ch0c0late 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Fiance is Older than i am..and what do i see in him?
Protection, maturity, TRUE love, Sincerity,Inteligence, he knows exactly how to make me feel the most beautiful, the most loved, and the list could continue ...
But this is it, and HE is the man who made me feel like No other guy EVER did before.
I love him and this year we will get married. I LOVE him like never loved anyone before, just because he is the BEST man alive. :)
2007-01-28 09:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It makes her feel older and more mature. The man is very flattered and dotes on her, giving all his attention, which she's apparently craving. It snowballs from there. Money might play a part, I don't know.
2007-01-28 09:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
security, money, protection. A freshman girl might like a senior boy because of his car, a chance to rebel, a change of conversations between friends, for something to do, etc
2007-01-28 09:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by alayton_1991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rich older man: Money, house, new car, vacations, community property, inheritance!
Poor older man: Beer gut, bald head!
2007-01-28 09:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps an escape plan from an unhappy situation or an unpleasant memory.
2007-01-28 09:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by Carl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends could be they act more mature better manners & some even for the money & security
2007-01-28 09:21:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋