i moved to this new skool, its nice (not really XD), any way, i dont know any one there and its a big skool so i get lost most of the time, at the 1st day i went there, i did every thing i know on how to make new friends like be your self, smile at them, be friendly blablabla... so there was this 1 girl she was like "hi" so i said hi back and smiled at her, then she started to laugh! she then went to this other girl and was like "hey, hey, look at this, come here and look at this, smile again" so i smiled and she was like "THATS SOOO FAKE!!!!" then ahe started laughing really loud and told every one about my smile, well at leat she could just understand that im just trying to make friend!!! the next day other girls started asking me to smile at them then i would say "no" cuz i know there just guna laugh at me, but when ever i talk i would always smile, and im not being fake i really have an ugly smile!.. so how can i even make friends at this skool if they wont even let me?!
2007-01-28 01:11:27 · 5 answers · asked by user 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there was this other time when i just couldnt take it any more, my classmates just kept teasing me so i went to the cr n i started crying which made me look like a cry baby, i dont cry alot, i just did that cuz every thing they say and do just hurtd my feelings. no one listens to me. then there was this other tym wen it was the 1st day in skool i was using a samsonite bag, but since samsonit is expensive, every one thought im really really rich, so when ever i would buy lunch they would always look at my wallet, its so annoying! the only time they talk to me is when they want to borrow money from me, most of them never payed me back so from now on no 1 can get monney from me.. then there was this one tym when i got the highest grade in math so when my teacher announced that every one was like "WHOA!!!" see!!!! they even think im stupid!!!
2007-01-28 01:19:23 · update #1
im 14, f, 1st year high skool, philippines, i joined the forest club so i go out alot
2007-01-28 01:20:49 · update #2
sometimes i just get so pissed of that i wanted to like start a fight with them but i cant cuz im the oldest person in my batch, so i have to be a good model to them. they never showed me any respect, and our class section is called 1-respect!
2007-01-28 01:27:39 · update #3
Ugh, people are so mean. When I was in junior high school I perfected a "non"-expression. Even then some kids still tried to make fun of it. Really, the best response is no response. Just ignore them, be the bigger person. In time they'll move on.
There are probably other kids who don't have a lot of friends either, you're not the only one. Try approaching them, but keep in mind they've probably been subjected to torment too so they might be a bit edgy! A good tip is to ask questions, like "what did you think of that (teacher/class/school-related thing)?"
2007-01-28 01:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very easy to make friends............what you have to do is just be urself, talk to people and listen to their problem and them feel comfortable and you will definitely win their hearts!!!!!!!!!!!!!so what its the way you think for urself>> but i think everyone is an individual and we should respect it............our looks, our personality is a gift of nature and we should be thankful to the nature for this..........and dont ever think that your smile is not good or stuff like that........a true friend is one who understands you and share his/her world, veiws,joys and sorrows with you............ and you will definitely get a true friend..... i will pray for you............and remember these words "BE IN WORLD, DON'T LET THE WORLD BE IN YOU". take care and enjoy your life!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-28 09:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sound snobby..so you probably wouldn't want them for friends anyway....Your smile couldn't be that bad...just be yourself and eventually someone will notice how neat you are and you'll become friends....takes time to adjust .....just be patient and Good Luck!
2007-01-28 09:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be really outgoing. Also join sports and clubs and stuff, you get to know so many people that way.
2007-01-28 09:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and be true to dealing with others and later, you might not recognize that you already have alot of friends..
2007-01-28 09:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋