why men cheat?

Question

Men have no concept of fidelity , lets say most men. Given a chance to get some loving outside a relationship they will. You hear " my wife does not give me enough loving, figure out why. Because mister you stopped romancing her. Most men thinkwith their dick thats why

Answer 1

If a man truly is a man he will not cheat

Answer 2

They have this natural need to reproduce. All this no cheating stuff is not very logical if you think about it. It's a very social thing that we look upon it as wrong. I'm personally not in favor of cheating men, but that's just the nature of things. Now, some men don't cheat, either because they don't have enough confidence in themselves or just can't get anybody, or because the ass they're getting now is so good that they don't want to take the risk that they might lose it.

If he doesn't get enough, he'll get it somewhere else. If you forget about the romance shindig and give him what he needs, then that's the end of story. Is that a compromise you would want to make?

And don't forget, women cheat too. Everyone thinks about being with someone else. Or someone else can get them turned on. How come its not cheating unless the person actually physically does it?

Answer 3

You have no clue about real men. I do amost everything around the house; and my wife is a stay at home mom. I've never complained about how much I work outside the home and how much I do when I get home EVER. I've tried everything to help my wife with ALL of her troubles but while all of those troubles have been resolved, she continues to not desire me. I just want to know she wants me and I want some passion in our lives. I'm good looking and sexually adequate. This is why I just asked the question on here "Should I have an affair?" You can claim we all think with our penis; but that's you just lashing out because you've obviously been hurt. How many times have women said ... "My husband doesn't notice me" Why is it so hard to believe that some men feel that way too?

Answer 4

don't always put it on the guy. I'll play devils advocate here, maybe she's always tired, head ache, not in the mood and he finally had enough. sometimes it is the woman. he needs romance too.

Whether male or female if one is cut off for the sake of cutting one off that person will look else where.

Lets put it this way, I've had to tell my husband that just because he can't take care of my "physical" needs it does not mean that I don't need to be held and cuddled. Should I go elsewhere? He responded with the holding and cuddling. I know it can't go further but I feel loved and so does he. I'm not going anywhere now but had I been cut off from all loving gestures I would have. As he might if it where reveresed.

Answer 5

All men cheat. And lie. It's a known fact. Let's quit complaining about it and move on. Know from now on when you meet someone, he might be charming in the beginning, but sooner or later he'll sh*t all over you. Who really cares? Who cares what they do? Let them go out and get diseases, we just don't care anymore----I'm doing other things, satisfying things that don't require I spend my time worrying about what HE is doing. I have the attitude I can walk away at a moment's notice, he's cheated before, he'll cheat again, its just a matter of time and opportunity --I"ll put up with his crap until he becomes so repulsive that I can't handle it. Love? Men don't know how to love, but they sure will give you a big lie about that as well---it's too bad really, that we have had to become so disillusioned because of their behavior. But looking back, every one I've ever been in a 'relationship' with has had some type of dysfunction (sexual, mental, sometimes both) ---it's just a fact of life we keep fighting against. I say let's embrace it for what it is and MOVE ON with our lives.

Answer 6

Normal, smart, good men do have a concept of fidelity. They also have enough sense to get out of a relationship that would require them to cheat. Words to live by: A fling with no commitment is just that, A relationship is cherished.

Answer 7

Cheating is not a gender issue. In today's society, women cheat as much as men. Cheating is a Chacture issue. With TV and Movies making cheating sound exciting for so long, most of our people in today's society have no second thoughts on doing it. The only "cure" for it is to have good morals, be raised right, and have a strong chacture.

Answer 8

A large percentage of women are unfaithful too. More men, yes, but they aren't all cheating with the same women so *someone* else is involved who doesn't have a dick.

What you should do is list all the stupid lame excuses women give also. "He wasn't 'meeting my needs'." "I love him, but I'm not *in* love with him." (geezus keerist i hate that idiotic statement.) "I got lonely. sniff." "I 'fell' in love." "It just happened. He's a 'bad boy.'" Those sound equally as stupid, shallow, selfish, and asinine. Because most women think with their feelings, that's why.

No one can give a 'good' reason for cheating. Don't hold your breath waiting for one. Unless they admit they have zero respect for their partner OR their lover, are supremely selfish, and are so concerned with pleasing only themselves they are compulsive liars, then their reasons are sh*t as you have observed.

But don't blame just men. We could easily say if women weren't such whores there'd be fewer affairs. It's not exactly a balanced view.

Answer 9

Ah, a woman scorned. Step down from the soap box hun...cause women cheat too. I agree about the romancing...but a relationship does take two to work.

Answer 10

You are sooo true. Men stop romancing a woman when he thinks he has got her where he wants. (marriage) that's why the problems start. OH my wife is so cold, and she wont give it up. and what do they do to prevent this? Nothing, they just act like nothing is happening and then they try to put the blame on the women.

Answer 11

You're correct - they're pigs, most of them in this day and age. They weren't always like that, and liberalism (the plague of the 21st century) is largely to blame.

Not all men are like - I'm not...but then, I haven't been able to even get a date in years and years and years. So, what do you think about that?

The person above was correct who said they're not real men. They're not real men any more than religious hypocrites are real Christians. They might look and act the part, but they're really not.