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introduce a third party into bedroom with my girlfriend for one night.has anyone done it and is does it cause too many problems afterwards?

2007-01-28 00:39:58 · 9 answers · asked by lisasbarred 1 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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it depends how long you have been together and who you brought into the bedroom with you? I've had threesomes with some of my ex girlfriends and it was a blast but that doesn't mean i'd do it with my current girlfriend even though we've been together 9 years and have pretty much done everything together. It can cause a lot of problems and might not be worth it in the end-how does she feel about it?If she's all for it then ok,but if any of you have any doubts i'd forget about it!It can cause irrepairable damage to a loving,trusting relationship and if there were no problems beforehand is it really worth risking it so you can get your rocks off for your Birthday?

2007-01-28 03:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by munki 6 · 0 0

To be honest i would advise against it,especially if you value your relationship. I'm speaking from experience,so i know what i'm talking about. My partner suggested it to me and i thought why not,it sounds like fun and we did. It started of as fun,all the time my partner was being intimate with the other woman she was loving it and it did wonders for me and then it all changed as soon as the other woman got intimate with me. My partner didn't enjoy that part and made it very clear by the way she reacted. She tried to deny it and said it was fine but her body language,attitude and tone of voice told a different story. This made the experience become very unenjoyable and uncomfortable for all involved,especially myself and the other woman. We both were made to feel as though we had done something wrong even though it was my partners idea. For at least a year after this happened my relationship with my partner was very badly strained and far from happy but luckily for me we've managed to get it back on track again. It could quite easily have been the end of my relationship but thankfully we managed to stay together and work through it. I hope this helps you to decide what to do,all the best and good luck

2007-01-28 11:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by SHAKIRA 2 · 1 0

i'm not sure if this is a girl, i'm straight and had a third party with another lady and a man, it was alot of fun, best for the third party to be with someone you don't know and will never see again

2007-01-28 10:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by pinklinz@btinternet.com 2 · 0 0

Probably a lot of emotional stress, and also strained relationships afterwards. But hey, if you want to then go for it.

2007-01-28 08:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Flaze 3 · 0 0

Introduce a 3rd party? How business like and sexy !

2007-01-28 09:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would drop you like a hot potato. Sis man. Have some respect for your Girlfriend.

2007-01-28 08:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 0 0

see first u have to ask ur GF if she agrees with it. coz i have done it with my Ex-bf, actually he is the one who asked for it. and i ddnt like it, we ddnt last that long, problems started to become bigger and then we broke up.

IF U WANNA KEEP UR GIRL
DON'T DO IT

2007-01-28 08:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Boyz Charm 2 · 0 1

i wouldnt like it, some random guy gawking at me and my lover.

2007-01-28 16:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

only if your relationship is 'strong' enough.

2007-01-28 08:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kedar 7 · 0 0

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