I was talking to this girl I went to basic training with and my girl friend was thinking something was going on because I was going be hide my girl back to talk to this girl and now she don't trust me alot and she said that I'm losing her and we are trying to get married in August but she not going to marry a man she don't trust. I really love this girl with all my heart theirs nothing I won't do for her. HELP ME PLEASE
2007-01-27 23:28:25 · 7 answers · asked by Dominic W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A man with nothing to hide, hides nothing. Be an open book. You need to be where you say you are and let her check up on you. You have broken the trust and you need to prove to her that you are trustworthy. It will take some time for her to feel that she can trust you again. Let her know where you are, who you are with and when you are coming back. She will eventually begin to trust you again.
2007-01-27 23:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the jealous theory. I had a girl that i almost married who was kind of like that. anytime i talked to or even glanced at another girl she would say something like "so what, i suppose you want to bang that one too". I dealt with that crap for 3 years. we eventually broke up because i got SO sick of trying to earn back trust that i never really lost. I would definately push back your wedding a few months or even a year. Sorry that this is so negative dude. I really dont know your situation all im saying is i was in the same place and thats my expierence. Good Luck!!!
2007-01-28 07:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by deere73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your girlfriend to talk to this girl so that she can tell
her there was nothing going on.
BUT your girl does feel insecure - and you have made
her feel this way. TRUST has to be built - so if you both
want to be happily married postpone the wedding and
get married when you both feel happy and there is nothing
for you to hide or feel guilty about. Also when your girlfriend
can finally say that she trusts you. Then for your own sake
don,t be so sneaky. Cos if your tempted.......
2007-01-28 07:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well trust is a hard thing to get back but you can sit your girl down and talk to her about your friends and introduce her to your friends and start from there and the ones that make trouble for you and her you can cut off or if she the type that don't want you to have your past friends mabe you such think about marrying her becaue no one sure be without friends that been there for you before she was. good luck my friend.
2007-01-28 07:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by bigmomma3526 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you my man have to give her time you need to give her space if it is meant to be it will be. she is only human andif nothing was going on you would of never of hide it. that is how she feels how would you feel if she done it to you. you would be hurt saying like damn she didnt trust me enough to say any thing think bout it. you need to earn her trust back and with this is time. always be honest no matter what that will get you along way in life.
2007-01-28 07:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by tomendez1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is earne...if she lacks that trust iyou then maybe you should not get married. You can only do what yu can do the ret is up to her. Good luck.
2007-01-28 07:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's the jealous type. She will always second guess you. She has told you straight up, she's the jealous type, you are young, your faith in her was misplaced, forget it. Move on.
2007-01-28 07:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋