my tunning with my husband is not good its been 30 years of my marriage?

Answer 1

You realizing this after 30years of you marriage that you’re tuning with your husband is not good. If my wife say this thing now after we have completed 25 years together I will search for the nearest wall to bash my head on it. This is the funniest thing I am hearing from you. In your 50s you two must be free from most of your social responsibilities such as marriage of kids etc & now your golden period of life comes to enjoy together you find your tuning with husband is not good. I will only request you to adjust with him as you both are in the eve of you life where you two require your company only, forget the past & be happy for whatever you got & forget whatever you could not get in these married years.

Answer 2

Ms Veena, if I'm not wrong, I think you meant TUNING. First, let me congratulate you on completing 30 years of married life or more importantly crossing the threshhold of 25 years, which is the Silver Jubilee of your married life. When did the realisation that you were not fine tuned to each other, come to your mind? If it came in the 30th year of your married life, congratulations again. Few modern day couples take that long to realise that they are out of sync with each other. It is indeed commendable that you have stuck to each other through thick and thin for 30 glorious years, which is something very few couples can pat themselves for.
The initial bonds of most married lives are centred on the attractions of the flesh, and a lot of differences are overlooked or rather submerged by physical closeness. The novelty begins to wear off as the years advance. Newer problems crop up. Small differences begin to magnify themselves. Ideally couples should sit face to face and thrash out such differences then and there instead of letting those to linger. Ego should not come in the way.
And how about trying a little variation to the same old things that you two did, are doing now and will continue to do in the future as well? Variations and changes do spice up dreary lives.
Finally, very few couples are made for each other in real life. We have to adjust and fine tune ourselves to bring ourselves closer. Differences will exist and a life without differences is equally unexciting. But by trying to understand each other's needs, making little sacrifices for each other, caring and sharing, you can tune your conjugal life to higher bliss. Best of luck.

Answer 3

30 years and what is a tunning?

Answer 4

Assuming something of a sexual nature with a British accent, I suggest you openly discuss your sex life with your husband of thirty years. There's a BBC show called the Sex inspectors full of advice for couples who are having sexual difficulties. If you're not having fun there's a chance, neither is he. Work things out and figure out ways to explore what each of you would like better or more of.

Good luck

Answer 5

If after 30 years you haven't found the key to harmony maybe you need to think about a solo act...

Answer 6

What is tunning? Is it sex? If it hasn't been good for that long see a counselor...there may be mental/emotional reasons beyond your control.

Answer 7

u need to look at ur relation deeply gain . or have some professional advice .
30 yrs too long to relise what u have been missing in life . may be by now u should have got used to ur life as it is .
y bother now ?

Answer 8

For thirty year's what u were doing with your hubby ? ur husband must be older than you or u must be having an affair withsome one else.

Answer 9

What is tunning?

Answer 10

Find ways to resolve your problem by give way to each other and making time for each other.