I always use to feel very inferior about myself. Especially in love. I alway feel that I am not fit for love. I want to behave very manly. How can I become very bold, manly with self confidence. What should I do to develop my personality (esp Look)?
2007-01-27 22:40:35 · 8 answers · asked by Danndy 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Hi Ya
It is a well known fact that if you do not like yourself and give off neg feelings like the ones above then this is how people will perseve you. Firstly you must like yourself. Also you can only help yourself. For instance evry day get up and smile at yourself and say this is going to be a good day. It is a fact that if you are a person who smiles a lot it gives off the elusion of confidence and after awhile because of positive reactions to you will be come confidence. This is just one of the ways to change your world. Think positive you do deserve to be happy and be loved. Say this every day , believe me it will help
Hope this helps
2007-01-27 22:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by starmoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look...there's always somebody out there that will love you the way U are. Believe me, I used to feel inferior too,I wasn't myself in my relationships...but then everything changed.So, don't be disappointed!!!
However,if U think that you have to change your behavior, do it because YOU want to!But If you think that this is who U are, just start felling self-confident and BE YOURSELF! I know it's difficult, but give it a try!!
And remember...if YOU don't love yourself,how do U expect that someone else will?
I hope I helped.
Wish U the best.
2007-01-28 06:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by j.h. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy with your looks, change them. Go to the gym. Get a new haircut. Get highlights. Shave. Grow a goatee. If you need braces for your teeth, get them. Or at the very least, buy a $15 home whitening kit. Look at men's magazines for style ideas. Clothes really do make the man. You don't need to spend a lot, just look like you have your own style.
Take care of your skin. See a dermatologist (skin doctor) if you need to. If you have a unibrow or bushy eyebrows, get them cleaned up at a salon for $15. More and more guys do nowdays. If you wear and are shy about your glasses, get a new stylish pair, or get contacts. Contacts are not that expensive anymore.
Have lots of interests and stuff to talk about.
Then, feel good in your own skin and be proud of your new look.
2007-01-28 08:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by reginachick22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go to the book store or library and get self help books about self esteem. Or make a list of all the positive things you are. Life is too short to not go out and LIVE Enjoy every minute and do not waste time putting yourself down!!!!!
2007-01-28 06:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by christy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wake up in the morning and look in the mirror and instead of saying, "I'm so fat/ugly or whatever..." or anything to put yourself down, say out loud, "I'm the most beautiful person I know!" and no one can change that....think on the bright side!
2007-01-28 06:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Renee` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have self confidence in yourself that comes from within.
2007-01-28 07:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by sarah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start feeling superior! Spend less time in front of a computer screen and more time outside with your mates.
2007-01-28 06:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by cjgoodwin_2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oooooooohhhhh buddy dun feel like that
i think u will be loved by ur mate as you are
dun change urself for others
and i think if someone loves u he will never say to change you
the one who love only loooks is not A TRUE LOVER!!!!
and its very harsh to say that i am not fit for love
every one is made for love
ur mother's love, ur father's love, ur frends love, ur spouse love!!!!!!!!
u r perfectly fit for someone
find it!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-28 06:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋