I always use to feel very inferior about myself. Especially in love. I alway feel that I am not fit for love. I want to behave very manly. How can I become very bold, manly with self confidence. What should I do to develop my personality (esp Look)?
2007-01-27 22:39:59 · 6 answers · asked by Danndy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i think its call self management
and you have to confirm to your self that your better than everbody else by standing in front of the mirror and saying (YOU ARE THE MAN)or something like that
2007-01-27 22:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by creme8888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you lack confidence in yourself. This is probably causing a lot of unhappiness in your life. If you continue doing and living the way you are, you will continue to feel and act the same way. For things to change, YOU must change. You have to change your philosophies on life. Once you change your philosophies on how you want to live your life, everything will change. How do you change your philosophies in life, you ask? Go to a bookstore and read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. After you are done with that, read some other books from that self-improvement sectin.
Skeptical? Hey, you can either be skeptical and not read that book or do what I'm telling you and continue to do what you're doing right now, which obviously isn't workin' out for you, or you can take a chance and do something different to get different results!
Good luck!
2007-01-28 06:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by calvin_tran@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the first things you must realize is that you are not odd or different than everyone else in the world. Most people, even if they don't show it, have insecurities and feel unsure about themselves especially when they are young.
Next, you are looking in the wrong place to make you feel worthy. If you are always looking at someone else to make you feel better about yourself, you are going to smother others and chase them away, and you are never going to learn how to feed your own need for love. It would be better to forget about relationships for a while and do something on your own. Learn a foreign language or how to play an instrument. Become a scrabble champion. Something, anything, that becomes a part of what makes you unique.
2007-01-28 06:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem since I was a young girl. I would recommend talking to someone, writing in a journal, finding inspiring quotes and placing them in places that you'll see them every day, daily affirmations in the mirror....I know it can be difficult, but remember you deserve happiness just as much as anyone! Just be confident in yourself :)
2007-01-28 06:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi its very simple to came out of inferior feeling try to praise yourself as much as possible.think positive . always think that GOD is always behind you nothing wrong will happen.Apply this in your life and see the difference in a week.All the best and be bold.
2007-01-28 06:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by rajeevarora4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a DATE WITH AN UGLY GIRL AND WATCH THE LOOK ON HER FACE AS YOU MAKE IT LOOK LIKE THE KNIGHT IN SHINNING ARMOR TO HER~SHE COULD SHOWER U WITH ENOUGH BROAD BASED APPEAL TO EVEN GO OUT AGAIN!
2007-01-28 06:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋