my class mate is turning 18 and the othey day i was joking about a doggy style and she asked me what a doggy style is. And today i was also joking about a friend of mine getting a dildo for his birthday and.. she asked me what a dildo is. This is nothing, this girl knows absolutley nothing about adult content and sex. She's a little bit religious - Orthodox but still.. should i help her? I mean i'm a guy. Or should i just let her discover the stuff.. till mabey when she gets married?
2007-01-27 22:17:35 · 24 answers · asked by Satan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no you guys i'm serious this girl is very naiive and her friends are even dumber! Her friends don't know what rape or sex is in the first place.. She just looks up to me that's all.
I'm just worried that she'll get hurt or taken advantage of .. of worse - sexually abused.
2007-01-27 22:26:39 · update #1
Help her?? Maybe she finds comfort in her religion. She need never know what a "dildo" or "doggy" means - it won't be on a job interview and there's enough dirt in the world. Just leave her alone.
2007-01-27 22:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is a little naive to the ways of the world. She probably has lead a sheltered life and there is nothing wrong with that.
If she wants your help, she will let you know. But don't push the issue.
2007-01-28 06:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. It sounds to me like YOU need to know something about life, too! There is a little something called "Propriety" which you obviously were never taught by your father and mother and they were probably were never taught by their grandparents. Good manners pass down through generations. There is NO REASON why you should be talking about stuff like that infront of a girl who YOU KNOW does not share your VULGAR conversation sense.
2007-01-28 06:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by joe m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know that she's religious and sheltered, yet you continue to say provocative things to her. You aren't being a friend. You need to ask yourself why you're doing this instead of should she already know. Even if she knew about these things, she'd still be embarrassed most probably to have a guy talk to her about it.
2007-01-28 06:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, Satan, leave the girls alone. They will learn all that they have to learn when they get a little older. It isn't your task in life to teach them sex. You can talk to them about everything and almost anything, but avoid talking about sex. It is best that these naive girls learn from books or from other girls.
2007-01-28 06:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's no SHOULD in this scenario. She's innocent and naive which I find personally endearing. It's not for you to educate or corrupt her. Yes, you should let her discover sex and sexual matters when she chooses.
2007-01-28 06:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naww...let her be the nice little good girl while she still is one. In time, she'll know about it all. It's some gift for the man she'll love.
2007-01-28 06:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a nice girl and there are not many about, this has nothing to do with religion but growing up.
2007-01-28 06:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by LMH 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
18 year olds can buy smut, might as well let her know from a respectable adult point of view, instead of from Fat Nasties Volume 8
2007-01-28 06:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i suggest to not let her eyes open on these stuff let her discover by herself and if she comes to ask u in something u can help her to get to know it
2007-01-28 06:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by ^Butterfly^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋