Ok, It all started when I really got mad at my best friend. Who appartly went out with my crush when she knew. I got so angrey, I sent her some nasty e-mails on my computer (swear words, picking at, making fun). And soon my mom found out and she got so angrey at me. She told me she couldn't trust me anymore and know shes in my life! She snoops through my room, she talks about things like I don't want to talk about, and she won't let me leave the house without a cell phone and a extra walkie talkie. I want her to gain her trust back. But how?
2007-01-27 21:46:58 · 20 answers · asked by snowangel34543 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
suck up to her....
2007-01-31 21:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by stevepolliet234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom shouldnt be so hard on you about some emails, but thats not for me to decide. In order to gain her trust back, first you need to apologize, sit down and talk to her and find out what things can you do to make her trust you again. You wont win her trust back over night but gradully and if you do everything she tells you to do, come home on time, keep your room clean, help her with the chores, do the dishes, laundry, and even do some lil things that you dont normally do. Dont go overboard and try to do to much at first..
And while your apologizing to her, give her a big hug and a kiss on her cheek.. show her your love and I bet in no time you'll win back her trust
2007-01-27 22:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay low and be a good daughter around the house. Be respectful and show her your trying.I am confused about how you lost trust through some nasty emails. How do you know she didn't snoop before the emails? If you have nothing to hide she will not find anything so do not worry.
2007-01-27 21:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by fdebbie2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the only way to gain trust. Once trust is broken it takes a long time to prove yourself again. Your relationship will get better but, you just need to be patient. She is probably disappointed in the fact that you would make fun of someone and use swear words. In her eyes you were probably perfect and for the first time, she has had to see you as human. Just give her some time. She'll come around but, you need to prove yourself to her.
2007-01-27 21:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get on her good side.
but don't fake it and don't do it at a bad time either, trust me she'll know what your doing(just come in after skool or somethin and be all nice and stuff and hold the frustration in untill ur alone then u can let it out a little). so try not to do bad stuff anymore, and be nice to her and do the stuff she wants you to do. when you leave somewhere just go along with it all. for awile anyways, then hopefully she will trust you again and you'll be off the hook
oh and if you do get off the hook w/ her just play along a little at a time so you won't go though with it again
i'm glad i can semi help w/ your problem cause i go though that a lot with my grandmother!
2007-01-27 22:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Punk Hero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that for a while your are going to have to allow you mum to do this. Its her way of saying to you" i thought you were this mature but unfortunatly you actions show that you aren't as mature as I thought" When she sees that you are responding positively to this, ie telling her where you are going, if you are going to be late calling home as soon as you know you will be to let her know, then she is likely to ease up. Talking about things you don't want to, well I think that's more of your typical parent/child thing than a trust issue.
2007-01-27 22:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by BeeBee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom just wants u to be safe, to snoop is a mom's job, so she can know what is going on in your life, so she can prevent certain things from happening. u can gain her trust back by showing her through actions that u can be trusted, by your deeds, and how u handle the problems in your life.
2007-01-27 21:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She needs an action from you proving that she can trust you. But first thing you must talk to each other. And why not ask for another chance? if ever she give that chance... don't lose it. Do what is needed to do.
2007-01-27 21:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Aira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a while for a person to be able to trust you again. Maybe you should begin by showing your really sorry, telling her you are and promising her you wont do it again.
2007-01-27 21:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stick to the rules, it takes time but its the only way, also try saying sorry to your friend,and remember,boyfriends come and go, but real friends can be for life, never pick a boy over your friends.
2007-01-27 21:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by ginger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time just play the straight and narrow for a bit and she will get over it.
2007-01-27 22:00:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋