2007-01-27 21:44:31 · 5 answers · asked by Sean T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friendships don't have to be equal in intensity for all of the participants involved. If they were, very few of us would have any friends (especially guys). (I'll give you another example: one boy may consider another boy a casual friend -- someone to do things with and have fun -- but the other boy, in turn, may consider the other friend to be a "close" friend, someone he would confide in about what is going on in his life.)
It's perfectly okay for you to consider this guy your best friend when he considers another guy his best friend.
My advice: Enjoy your best friend but don't necessarily make a point of telling him right now how you feel -- or of making it known you feel uncomfortable that he has another best friend.
Boys and men get jealous of each other's friendships all of the time. This is nothing new. We just hide this type of thing more than the ladies do with each other.
Here's the thing too: If your friend ever decides to break the friendship between himself and this other guy, you will still be there in the wings (so to speak) and could very well become the next best friend, something that you wanted all along.
2007-01-28 01:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll be my bestfriend no matter if I am or not his bestfriend. but first does the other boy is real good man I mean good friend to my friend or not you should know the answer to make you desicion.
2007-01-28 05:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by acer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur que stirred all the bad memory in me i felt like i i was reminded of loosing all my frnds it is very difficult to cover up dis thing but one advice dont worry time teaches all and believe me if the end of a story is not happy then it is not the end if the story
2007-01-28 06:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Nishant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave out the word best when it comes to friends. The best part seemes to go back and forth in a life time.
Use the term......you are one of my best friends.
Don't get in a huff over this. this is how life is.
2007-01-28 06:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question touch my heart cause from 3 monthes, my best friend stop talking to me and left me , and till now i dont know WHY??? no answers from him i contact him many many times and ways but no answer
after 3 monthes i am trying to forget him but till now not 100% forget him
best answer NO??
2007-01-28 05:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋