2007-01-27 21:10:25 · 8 answers · asked by Obsidian © 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yeah i need my bro's love my mom
s love ,y cousin my frenz and my lover my boss
2007-01-27 21:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by astrid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as a relationship goes then yes I only need one love. However I need to love and be loved by my children and my family and closest friends. You have an endless supply of love and you have it for a reason. Without the love and support of others, you would have nothing. If you couldn't love more then only one person in your life, you would be missing out on something great and profound. You would feel empty.
2007-01-28 05:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by season_leigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! You need the love of your mother and father, your family members. You need love of yourself. Once you have all that in place and are a big guy with maturity, you might be ready to seek another human being with whom to share life and love.
Sometimes one is lucky and hits pay dirt in their choice of life mate, but sadly more often in this disposable society people seem to flit from love to love with minimal commitment. The "Sex in the City" syndrome is what I call it. Some people live together forever. My parents walked around hand in hand until they were into their eighties. It was tough at times, very tough, but they made it and still love to bicker.
Personally, I am a big believer in polygamy and polyandry. I have always felt that humankind as a whole is not monogamous. In the beginning humankind, or what evolved into humankind, lived in large extended family groups to survive in a harsh environment. No matter how "modern" we are today, some things never change and this group living can still be a wonderful option. It takes a lot of work to live this way, but many hands can make lighter work when working toward common goals. Always spiced with love and compassion to carry you through the rough times.
If handled with thorough respect, complete commitment and total devotion, all members should be able to have can have most of their living their needs met much more completely than in the regular pair coupling. I speak here practically in terms of finances, child care, housing, companionship, with sex being rather the bottom priority. I call these conglomerate marriages.
Possibly these will be the wave of the distant future. Fully integrated as part of a supportive society, everyone wins but it takes a great deal of honesty and commitment to make it a success for everyone involved. These marriages are entered with the same sense of permanence as any other sacred vows you might take and are not to be taken lightly.
Of course, women should have equal rights to men in all things including multiple husbands if this is an arrangement that works well among the individuals concerned. It is by no means just a new way to have lots of sex with a lot of people or "swing" as the Americans call it.. Nor is this a man with a harem or vice versa. It is a rational system of living together based on equality. It may sound easy, but there are still the usual human emotions to be dealt with.
It just depends on how you were raised and what you are ready to accept I suppose. Or what you feel. These relationships should not be based merely upon sex although, of course, sex is always a factor. Much more important is the spiritual connection and the commitment to common values between all parties involved.
Whatever you do, don't fall for all that Valentine day mush stuff too much. It is fun, but that is all, fun. Real love is much deeper, much truer than that. I think many people are fully capable of loving more than one person.
I just finished a good book called Soul mate by Deeprak Chopra that explores this theory in great depth while it is still a great read. Check it out. The plot is basically that, how a young man finally comes to grips with loving two women. It is beautifully handled and you will get some wonderful insights.
BTW... don't buy too hard into the soul mates theory. Over our many lives we have many many soul mates. We meet with them again and again over the millenia. To say we only have one soul mate is to limit ourselves, not to mention ridiculous and rather boring. In the end, basically, I think love is an endless commodity and that it should not be exclusive unless that is what you want it to be.
Just because you love someone does not mean you own them. that is not respectful at all. There is always enough to go around if things are handled with love and complete respect.
In the immortal words of the Beatles... "love is all there is".
Hope you get some good ideas from your question! Thanks for asking it.
2007-01-28 05:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need to give love to more than just one. I already have the love of one that counts, the rest that want to love me are just for fun.
2007-01-28 05:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. One love, one heart, let's get together and feell all right.
2007-01-28 05:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by S&S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just one to truly love
2007-01-28 05:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not.
2007-01-28 05:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by nelabis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
2007-01-28 05:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by dh1977 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋