Sometimes I have a dream about this person I used to be involved with. I may not have even been thinking about him. But there he is. It seems so real and I DO remember things he has said to me in the dream. I always feel down when I wake up. He still has contact with me sometimes ( in reality) but not often. Why am I dreaming of him? Can someone help.
2007-01-27 21:05:13 · 3 answers · asked by skii21 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings. Just because the relationship ends does not mean that all is finished. As we go through relationships we learn and at times pick up "battle wounds." You will continue to dream about your ex boyfriend until you "let go" of him on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues.
2007-01-29 06:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your dreams are mearly a replay of your subconscious. the fact that he is still incontact with you and you do have thoughts about him, romantic or otherwise, means that he is part of you thoughts. i wouldn't read too much into it. you cannot control your dreams.
2007-01-28 05:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
click on the link below:
http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=navclient&ie=UTF-8&rls=SKPB,SKPB:2006-40,SKPB:en&q=meaning+of+past+loves+in+dream
2007-01-28 05:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by khushukhushi15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋