my best friend of like 6 years, almost like my lil sister, had a baby a year ago (which i call my niece) and her and the baby's daddy weren't together up until a few weeks ago, and now that they are back together, she dont call anymore, hardly answers my calls. he took her away from me once, and we swore that wouldnt happen again, but she's very gullable and will fall into anyones trap. what do ya think i should do?
2007-01-27 20:08:08 · 8 answers · asked by AMANDA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My best friend in the world met a guy and had a baby and now i hardly ever he heard from her - but when we do chat it is awesome... if she has a baby then she is pre occupied trying to raise a family.. i know how you feel tho.. i felt the same way - but you have to think that she has a baby to look after - she prolly wouldnt be the same person as she used to be when you used to hang out - she just has different priorities and responsibilites then wat you do... its ok... just be there for her! Im sure she is there for you !
2007-01-27 20:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her boyfriend has to be jealous of you, and it's his own insecurity that drives him mad. He knows how she is, so he is a controlling freak. If shes been a good friend you stay friends, things change when children come into lives, and partners don't care for friends to be around. Like a threat to them, just be patient, and understanding. I have done that to my close friends, because I don't have the time I used to have when I didn't have children, and having a controlling partner is difficult, to stay in touch with friends at times, because of the drama we have to go through sometimes...You take care and worry about yourself!
2007-01-28 04:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by HOPE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessary to be together if you are friends. Let her live her life, and she will definitely meet you again as she is your friend but there may be some pieces which she is putting together and fixing the things up. Give her some time.
2007-01-28 04:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by Muhammad Ali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its important for the baby to have a father why don't you step aside and let them make their family stronger, I don't mean stay out of their life but give them a break.
2007-01-28 04:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by beatch38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friend and at the same time like lil sister comparison is not proper. So I don't think that you should do anything.
2007-01-28 04:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about how you feel. But be gentle. She might want to catch up with Baby's dad and figure out how they're gonna take care fo this kid but that doesn't mean you deserve to be phased out completely.
2007-01-28 04:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by blueJay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is too young, but she needs to make her own mistakes. you aren't related to her, even though you "feel" like she is. if he is a good guy to her and the baby, then that's it. nothing else you can do. she'll come to her senses sooner or later, and then you can be there for her, if you want.
2007-01-28 04:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to focus on your other friendships for a while until she learns how to manage her time better. Please be patient with her.
2007-01-28 04:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Cynthia D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋