My ex-boyfriend told me that my situation was just like in the movie. Our love story was just like in the movie. We had a truly love but I decided to give it up and I sacrificed our truly love, because my husband tried to kill himself. I finally came back to my husband. I lost my truly love - the only true love I ever had in my love. Do you think my decision was right or wrong? I have been regretted every day and I have been cried almost half year, because I lost my only true love… currently I felt like I am living in a lie with my husband, because I don’t love him any more… but I am still living with him… what I am going to do with this life? I am living in this world without a soul, because I don’t have only true love any more… what I am going to do with this life???
2007-01-27 20:05:25 · 8 answers · asked by Marilyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks for all your answers! I have to tell something about: My ex-boyfriend can't wait for me for so long since I left him over 9 months. He already found a new girlfriend. He said, he can't wait for me any more since his age is already 51. He is a handsome man and he is lawyer. He is deserved a better life….
We have been loved each other very much! We have promised each other before that we will be together forever for rest our life no matter whatever, but things changed after all. I never think about my husband will kill himself. That’s why I broken the promise with my ex-boyfriend (we had happy life together for almost 5 months, but I finally left him for my husband). So, what is about my life? Where I should go if without a true love? I also afraid of to be alone by myself...
2007-01-27 20:48:02 · update #1
I hate to say this but as I felt in the movie you should not have cheated in the first place.If you are unhappy in your marriage then look for a divorce attorney,and go on with your life, Your husband hopefully is on medication for depression. You can prepare him by talking to him honestly. Also his family and friends can help by being there for him.Best wishes to all.The longer you stay the worse it can be for your husband and you.
2007-01-27 20:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long time since I saw the movie but I think she was a war bride and those women who were lucky enough to get a GI and leave their war torn countries were very lucky indeed. They had been living years of deprivation in all aspects of their lives. They made the choice to survive. Then she was taken to the end of the earth and all that was dear to her and she was a good wife. Then along comes clint and something she never had at the time she should have had it. In the end this is a woman who will survive first and foremost and she knows in her heart of hearts that Clint will never belong to anyone other than himself. She will not give up the known for the unknown and possibilities, which is a young girls gamble. She got all that she could get from the relationship and she now has known real love on her part and she can live with that. She now has memories that she can visit with joy. I don't think she wanted to go with him. She made her decision long before the last look at him. No I would never have gotten out of the car either.
2016-03-29 06:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your husband as much mental health care as possible, so that you can walk away from this without feeling responsible for his life.
One cannot live the rest of their lives in an emotional blackmail situation.
In the long run, you're not doing him any favors by staying with him if you don't even love him any longer. He needs to get to feeling better with some medical care, then to be able to find a woman who will love him completely.
The movie was sad, btw.
2007-01-27 20:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you feel responsible for your husband, which is the right thing to do. That's what marriage is about. Your husband is the one who take cares of you when you are sick or feel lonely. True love is a hard work.. I believe that your relationship with the boyfriend felt great because it was different. You had all the best with him, but it wouldn't feel like this for a long time. It is called fascination.
You proved that you have higher values.
2007-01-27 20:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by eva j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you you did a good thing. it will be a lie. this whole life is nothing but searcing teh true love. but you lost it. of course the family defenders might kill be for that answer, but you should have definitely given up your family for him. all I can suggest is that maybe it is not late? contact him........
2007-01-27 20:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by nato k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now what the heck does this have to do with anything?
2007-01-27 20:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Alvurnus C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding!!
2007-01-27 20:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good.... i mean, it taught me a lot u know what I mean? Yea.... it did.... that's right.... hmmm.... so..... what's up? :-)
2007-01-27 20:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by Praveen C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋