well i asked a question like a few days ago about my ex and if i should explain to her why i stopped talking to her cos things ended badly and so forth....(cheating on her part)
anyway...we just started talking to eachother again today...and im kind of falling for her yet again...I know this question is stupid and you all probably see me as weak, but the truth is...i really feel like i cant control it....and i am scared of being alone....many other things...
what to do? we are actually talking right this moment...help!!
2007-01-27 19:56:29 · 9 answers · asked by adriboho 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Unfortunately, you have to admit that you're insecure. Nobody wants to be lonely, but nobody should depend on somebody else to make them happy. Your ex is totally taking advantage of your vulnerability, and once a cheater, always a cheater. Move on and take it as a learning experience. Then take the time to become more confident, independent, and love yourself more, to where you will never have to ask such a question.
2007-01-27 20:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by sorrowlaughed25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't control how you feel, however you can see a relationship for what it is if it is based on a fear of being alone. That's bound to end in disaster. Why not find someone to love for the right reasons?
2007-01-27 20:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all are human and are prone to mistakes.
what you have happened if you are been the one who screwe up?
maybe she learned an important lesson.
don't throw out the baby with the bath water.
the fact you still care about her is a sign you still care about her
communication is the key to happiness as if you have this all things are possible.
the worst you could do is end up with a good friend? keep an open mind but don't rush into anything without the test of time.
Give your relationship a chance to heal as the wounds are still fresh..good luck..its hard to find a good mate anywhere!
2007-01-27 20:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you still have feelings for her. You did have a relationship, right? And who wants to be alone? I don't. It sucks. Except that I can leave the lid up. (Sorry, bad joke.)
It's really up to you whether or not to let her back in your life or not. Maybe you should just string her along until she proves herself to you. If she really loves you, you can think seriously about her apology.
Good luck.
2007-01-27 20:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say break out the double headed dildo one last time. Give her a f u cki ng that will make her eyes roll back in her head. While she's out, beat her unmercifully with a ballbat, slopboxer.
2007-01-27 21:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy an Egg Plant, a jar of KY and take some time to yourself. You will get over the cheating butch !
2007-01-27 21:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by kuyasaya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What Natalie said.
You need thinking time.
If you have had that time, then you need to decide whether you can trust her again.
Good luck
2007-01-27 20:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by abetterfate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a break so that you can see clearly.
2007-01-27 20:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater--you are much much better than that......
2007-01-28 03:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by kim j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋