i am asking this question via my partners account, since she pestered the life out of me for a pc and i gave in and bought her one for her birthday, she has spent more and more time on this and other sites, she is at the point now where she is up most of the night, sleeps through the day, has become extremely nasty and argumentitive toward me, especially as she is tired most of the time, for an example, the other night she closed down the pc at 3.40am, then rebooted at 5.30am. is this normal? should i accept that this is now more important than me?
2007-01-27 19:54:26 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Honesty ♥.•´ `*.¸ ♥ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
feel a bit embarrased about this but, our sex life is now fading rapidly, although she does take very good care of our 2 yr old daughter.
2007-01-27 20:17:40 · update #1
You do realize she can now see that you have used her account, maybe it will open her eyes. come on honesty listen to your man.
This Internet thing is OK if used properly but family first and get out the chat rooms there all lies to boost your ego and lead you down the path to hell.
Good look Mr xxx
2007-01-27 22:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by LMH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to spend a lot of time on here whenI first got the computer.I wa so addicted to it that I couldn't care less about meals, going out or anything. I would take a quick shower and be back on but its wearing off now after one year lol...Sorry to hear that she is getting argumentative...it's that there are so many people on here to talk to and only one of you though of course you should be the most important of all. Take her computer away from her until she behaves normally lol or better still...just give it to her when she behaves nicely towards you :D
2007-01-27 20:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing to utilize the gift you gave her - but when it interferes with the relationship (as it is obviously doing) then it's a problem. You have a right to be frustrated - but you have the responsibility to tell her that the time she's spending on it is becoming an issue.
Why don't you look at the questions she's asked/answered - perhaps you'll get a little insight into her mind frame right now.
2007-01-27 20:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no other choice but to accept what she wants to do with her life,because it is none of your business.
It is a waste of time and energy to go into conflict over not liking what your partner is doing, especially when she seems to be enjoying something..
Be pleased for her,and try to help her rest after she has worn herself out.
However if she is the obsessive type, point out your concerns and try and talk things through.
Hopefully she is going through a phase,ans she may have found an outlet to vent something that has been locked away inside of her for so long.
cheer up it may never happen.whatever you do dont try to controlher because you could damage her,and i am sure you dont want to do that.
2007-01-27 20:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by meditation and mango juice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was exactly the same!!! I got my first PC and he was over my place all the time - sometimes staying up all night and half the next day to be on it!! I dont want to scare you but i found out that he was on them dating sites in the chat rooms etc.. organising to meet people!!! i couldnt believe it!!!
2007-01-27 19:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be my husband for all i no he says the very same thing about me.It is now 4.08 am and my husband is in bed alone. He said I guess I'll be sleeping alone again tonight.I guess so! Don't feel guilty at all well maybe a Little.It's late and i guess I'll go and wake my husband up for some RR
2007-01-27 20:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all i would tell her. be like listen i dont like the thought of you spending more time with a pc than me.. it sucks and i need things to be like they used to for us to continue our relationship successfully. tell her you miss her. and dont let her say anything just know that she now knows and thats all you can do... if she continues to act the same way stick to your words. good luck..
ALso remind her what time it is and let her know how long shes been on it like every 2 hours. because honestly... there has been times where i would be on here and i work an 8 hour shift. and beforei know it it's time to go... so see if she realizes how much time she's spending.
2007-01-27 20:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pc addiction is just like any other addiction. It has dependence it has tolerance and it has withdrawl. Let her know. Oh no plz its not about their relationship at all...What happens when guys watch games all day and talk about player in their dreams...Do you think they are having an affair with the players. No...its just an addiction.
2007-01-27 20:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by worried 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that if you talk to her and tell her that you feel your marriage is suffering because of it she will try to make time with you. But you could help by renting a movie or making a special night out ti show her what she has forgotten she has,
2007-01-27 20:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋