There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke college student, and I cannot afford them, but he's still asking me to told me to call him for this free session, so I asked him why was he offering me the free session, and he said because he does it for people he connect with so anyhow, I finally showed up for the damn session but I was late, so he's like when can you come in and I told him next friday and he's like why so
2007-01-27 19:40:31 · 6 answers · asked by Trish T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
cont) when I showed up for the session, he's pressing me about why can't I do the "Free session" tommorrow..he's like why does it have to be so long, and I 'm thinking damn this is a free session..so why are you pressing me so hard....and he sort of gave me the third degree about being late...he was questioning me about why I was late..and I told him traffic, and he's like okay you get a pass for that one..damn am I tripping or is he...
2007-01-27 19:41:01 · update #1
Now that I think about it ...there was another occasion where I was working out..and he came up to me ..asked me how I was doing..and I told him..fine but that I was tired and getting ready to go home...but then he was said..how come everytime I see you're going home..am I ruining your gym experiene...now that kinda blew me away
2007-01-27 19:41:37 · update #2
He's using a sales pitch and he is manipulating you with sales guilt.
Free session? Sounds to me like 24 hour fitness. Maybe the trainer has the hots for you, but it sounds too much like a sales pitch.
Sorry.
2007-01-27 19:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a bit creeps and sounds a bit like a sales pitch, maybe he is interested... maybe hes just doing his job.... watch him with other people (females) and see how he interacts with them.. maybe its just his way... but like i said he does sound a little creepy while its always good to be on time.. he has no business giving you the 5th degree about where you were and crap.... cause if you start a relationship and hes like that its going to get worse...
best of luck
2007-01-28 05:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he...is he much older than you because i think he is playing mind games on you...he thinks If you like him you will come by, if you dont he can still walk away like nothing happened he was just being friendly. Bottom line...he sounds creepy to me.
2007-01-28 03:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by worried 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think not only does this guy like you but he also sounds controlling.
2007-01-28 03:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by ben27hernandez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Sure he likes you, but he sounds kind of creepy.
2007-01-28 03:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by gingi_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, he likes you. you better join another gym.
2007-01-28 03:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Butch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋