One category of "swinging" is simple wife-sharing, in which a husband allows other men to have sex with his wife, without asking them to share their wives. This is perhaps the most misunderstood of so-called sexual perversions. Many who have practiced it report that it was helpful to their marriages. It would seem to me that if a marriage is good, but lacking the original excitement, wife-sharing might bring it back to life. But if the marriage is in trouble already, wife-sharing will probably finish it off.
2007-01-27 18:05:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You must be out of your god damn mind. Of course its bad, i'd never want to share my wife with anyone, she's gonna be mine and only mine!
2007-01-27 18:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by thugster17 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have been married 35 years and my husband has developed high blood pressure and diabetes and has lost his ability to preform sexually. Even with different medications. So he has asked me to look outside for fulfillment . He wants to watch which I would have a problem with. I guess to each his own I have had 1 affair outside marriage since this happened in the last year. Only 1 because I have to know and care about the other person my husband doesn't know and I feel no remorse or any commitment to the other person. I still see him from time to time on a friend to friend base.His wife knows.
2007-01-29 19:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by boomer 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How hypertrendy... If the husband is not the jealous type then it would definitely be exciting. Especially if the wife gets pregnant, falls in love with a different partner, or contracts a venereal disease. Sex is a very intimate, private and trusting act. It's best to be done with people you love and can trust. Otherwise it may cause a lot of heartache, health problems and jealousy. Besides how does one expect to be good in a long-term relationship if they are having relationships with everyone else?
2016-03-29 05:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by Loretta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is real life.. Not some porno movie.
In my opinion, you stand more to lose than to gain.. Many women have a hard time separating sex and emotions. If she develops feelings for one of the guys she's sleeping with, you can't blame her.
You need to talk it over with your wife first. See how she really feels about the issue. I would feel degraded and that my husband doesn't love me anymore if he wanted other guys to sleep with me.
In the beginning of your relationship with your wife, would you have wanted to see other guys sleep with her? Probably not.. To add more excitement, try making your relationship better with your wife and chances are the love between just the two of you will become more passionate.
2007-01-27 22:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about you sleeping with 10 different women, young & old, pretty & nice .. when you come back to your wife will be the same man? Have same feelings and desiers for her?
Marriage is not just convinent institution to be with someone. It has some rules.
2007-01-27 18:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife sharing will destroy a marriage though any marriage in
which husband & wife would do this is probably already dead...
No husband who is a real man would even consider this...
2007-01-27 18:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its great I'm in a three way with a married couple and we all couldn't be happier, so don't listen to all thoughts stuck up ***-holes that pull out values cards and say no cause they need to open their eyes and see that the world is not the same as it was when they grew up !
2007-01-27 18:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by daniel b 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont recall hearing anything to that affect within my vows. Anyone who chooses to share their mate, shouldnt be married in the first place. That's my opinion, and I stand by it!
2007-01-27 18:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes its called Adultery
2007-01-27 18:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its depend who come first to see who finish
2007-01-27 19:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋