2007-01-27 18:01:26 · 20 answers · asked by Morgan C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well you made the choice to have sex so therefore you have to suffer the consequences.. your parents will be very overwhelmed at first and probably freak out especially since you are so young and t hey will be the main ones taking care of the kid because I'm sure you are still in school but you have to tell them. Honesty is the best policy.. after they get over the shock they will be there for you and help you out as much as they possibly can.
2007-01-27 18:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by jasmyn 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well if you are pregnant you should tell them sooner then later. You never know how your parents are going to act. It always sad when some young get put in a situation of pregnancy. But it not the end of the world and you will get through it. My mom had my brother at 14 and now is running her own business and is still young enough to make her dreams come true. Your going to need all the support in the world. Tell them soon 9 months come faster then you think. God bless you.
2007-01-28 02:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by mysslady35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the exact same thing when i was 17. I had to tell my mom so that she could take me out of school to go to my doctor appoinment. I started crying about how I would break their hearts but i had to do it. I sat down and told my mom I know your going to be disappointed at me but I am pregnant. Then I broke down in tears. I told my dad like 5 days later. I was scared to tell him because he has a bad temper. He freaked like I thought he would but thank god his girlfriend was there at the time or else it would have been worse. When my mom took me to the doctors she was hoping that all I had was a cyst but I was in fact pregnant 6 wks at that. It didn't take long for my mom to come to terms with it but I took my dad a while. He wanted to kick my boyfriends butt. Now my dad and boyfriend are cool with each other and my dad couldn't be any happier. Just tell your parents when they are calm. Do not do it if they are having a bad day. That will just make their reaction worse. Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-28 04:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by wishbear3687 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found out i was pregnant at 16. It was very hard to tell them. But the longer u wait to tell them them longer it will take for them to except it. Just approach the situation with caution they may say some hurtful things but try to understand where they are coming from their 15 yr old daughter is going to have a child. Hopefully it will work out for te best. Good Luck.
2007-01-28 02:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by lucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not lie to them. Not all parents but most are supportive because they see the bigger picture. You can not change your decisions in the past but move forward with your future. Weigh your options and decide what is going to be best for your life and future. Your parents will let you know what they want you to do but remember you will affect not only you but another life from now on. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-28 02:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant when i was 15th but i was going out with my b/f for a while. I called my mom when she was at work so she couldnt really flip. She told me she was dissapointed and told me to abort it (which i was not going to do) she didnt tell me she was going to kick me out or nothing like that, so you just have to think of the right way to say it to her! I ended up misscarrying .. So dont strees and take your vitamins, look at the child as if you were goin to keep it and tke care of yourself!
2007-01-28 03:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be honest with them. One of my family members was 15 and pregnant and everything worked out for the best. The best thing to stress is that whats done is done, now dad, mom I need you to support me and this child. A child is a blessing indeed and may GOd bless your child. One thing that is so important for the younger generation is that they wait untill marriage to have relationships. It;s stress free and more importantly you save yourself for you husband who will always be worth the wait. God willing, I hope they understand, God Bless and keep us informed.
2007-01-28 02:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"mom...dad...Im pregnant" seriously though..you cant hide it from them for long. Its better to tell them earlier because they can help you. Yes they will be mad and disappointed but they will eventually get over it. And no matter what they will want you to be taken care of because you are still thier little girl. So they will get you the best help possible. You need to give them time to get over it though..be patient with them..thats a hard thing for a parent. But you need to tell them now!
2007-01-28 02:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to beat around the bush with an issue like this.. i would just sit them down and tell them what happened and that you were sorry it happened. if the boy truly loves you, he will join you on this adventure. meaning, he will talk to your parents with you, be there while you are pregnant and then even after youve had the baby...
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-28 03:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by short fat white girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd first sit them down and then tell them that they have to hear you out before they interrupt. Then I'd tell them that I was pregnant and that I [insert what you want to do with the baby here] and then tell them that you'll give them some time to think about it.
Then go to your room and just sit there and wait until one or both of them come in and then talk to them about it in there.
2007-01-28 02:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by Marah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋