I was really sad. She died at lacrosse pracice.her name was darcy. I am starting to think about other things that her. I don't want to do that. i don't cry anymore. the first day after we found out, was tues. They had an anouncement at school and everyone cried. Even people who thought she was a teachers pet, a geek, a dork, or just annoying. They had a crying room for us. There was food and candy. Cards to make. We could skip class and cry. After that i cried twice two diff. days at lunch. Now i'm not crying any more. I want to remember her more. Any ideas?
2007-01-27 17:54:10 · 11 answers · asked by Darcy'sgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am so sorry to hear about your friend. It is normal for you to cry and it is normal for you to hold it in at times.
If you want to remember her more, just remember who she was and how she has brought those memories to you. Keep pictures of her in an album, write a poem about her, take some flowers to where she is buried once in awhile. Keep contact with her parents if you know them.
She will be missed, but she will also be in your heart. (smile)
2007-01-27 18:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grieving the loss of a friend is different for everyone not crying anymore doesnt mean that you care any less she obviously meant alot to you and was a great part of your life and Im sure she would never want you sad its always tragic to lose one so young but she knows your still alive and she would want your life to be just as full as it ever was hold her in your heart no one and nothing can ever take that from the two of you and you will always remember her . While its ok to be sad for your loss its also ok to be happy for the time you had together some never allow themselves to care for or be cared for on such spiritual level you are truely lucky to have known a friend .
2007-01-28 02:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over a friends death. You seem to be doing the right things. Just take it one day at a time; the pain will get less each day. It's good to remember the good things and good times you had with Darcy. You will have more friends and more good times. Some other friend will take up the empty space but no one can replace her.
2007-01-28 02:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really horrible. I couldnt imagine what that is like, thankfully. I am sorry. My mom lost her best friend when she was 14. She still talks about her. Maybe make something to put on her grave so that others will know some of the good things you know about her. Best wishes.
2007-01-28 02:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my best friend when I was 15. My whole school mourned just as yours is. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. It has been 10 years now, and the only thing I can tell you is that the road ahead of you will be difficult. You will be angry, sad, scared, and gulity... just to name a few. Just remember, it's not your fault, and she knew you loved her. Do your best to carry on her memory, and please take care of yourself.
2007-01-28 02:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by joupedamom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share memories with friends it will help you remember and learn things you didnt know. Sorry to hear about your friend. Talking will help. Talk to her parents I have a friend who died a few years ago and I;ve gotten close with her parents. I hope I could be of some help.
2007-01-28 02:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by Freeman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone mourns in their own way. Don't rush the process. Try spendiing an afternoon with her Mom, it'll help you both. Tell her about your friendship and how it affected you. Talk in her room about her things. And don't worry, you'll never forget.
2007-01-28 02:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww hun I am sorry to hear that. Sometimes people don't want to hear others say I am sorry, but I really hope you turn to your family and other friends for support. Good luck
2007-01-28 01:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had thesame issue! the only thing your going to do is cry and mop. yes you lost someone really special to you. and you ask god y over and over but he doesn't answer! you will never 4getthis person . he/she will always have a large place in your heart.
2007-01-28 01:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by aaliyah b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shuld keep ur friendships symbols close to u
2007-01-28 02:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Daksh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋