Why do girls love gay guys so much? Whenever I tell a girl that I'm gay, they talk to me, say hi in the hallways, pass notes to me in class. Before they knew I was gay they wouldn't say more than two words to me, now it's like "Hey, guess what happened today? Hey, I said hi to you in the hallway and you didn't notice me! Hey, got a boyfriend yet?" So what's changed? How does being sexually unavaliable make a girl obsessed with you? I would think it would be the other way around.
2007-01-27 17:35:28 · 14 answers · asked by RainKid 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think its because there is no sexual pressure so they can just be friends and say whats on their mind.
2007-01-27 17:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oh hey there, can I have your number? maybe we can go shopping sometimes? No really, women love men, absolutely love being with men gay or not. A gay guy is still a guy, but there isn't that sexual tension, or the girl doen't have to worry that he's just there for the chance of getting some nookie. So, the girl gets to have a fun guy for a friend, no issues.
2007-01-27 17:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because we can get an insight into the male psyche and there isn't that sexual tension there like it is with a straight gay. Also there's usually not that jealousy or competition issues like there sometimes is when we're friends with other straight women. Plus all my gay male friends are alot of fun to be around and make me laugh all the time.
2007-01-27 21:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn i never knew young poultry digged gay guys
are the sheep up there alley also??because if they are no taken i wanted some midnight wool.
im a gal and i love gay guys
why?
because the kind of character
not all gay guys are sensitive etc etc feminine etc etc
it takes guts to stand up and say "i am gay"
that can be conflicting for a person
to accept they are gay
the journey to discovering one is gay
then to be open with it and say "i am gay"
a have a guy friend who is gay
he is not sissy frilly rainbows etc etc
then i have a gay guy friend who is kinda sissy not really per say "frilly" though
homosexual are diverse and different they just do just not fit in the gender bender catergory
like lesbians are supposedly feminists but i was a feminist before i was a lezz
2007-01-27 18:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by niffirg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Milkbone & Da ben are so right. I'm an adult & I have no interest in dating right now so if I meet a gay guy I know that we'll be friends & he won't expect anything else. Plus having a gay guy as a friend he is just so much easier to talk to
2007-01-27 18:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my case .... I have a lot of gay male friends, I can talk to them about cute guys and fashion, girl stuff, guy stuff - while still having a male companion I get the best of both worlds. I have a better time with them, then my female friends.
2007-01-27 17:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Yvette 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reason women love gay guys is because they can go hang out with them and don't have to worry about the guy trying to get in her pants.She can relax and actually have a good time without putting up her guard.
2007-01-27 17:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by crazycul1 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because in finding out your gay, you are automatically not one of the guys who are going to use and abuse us we can hang out with you and not have to worry about you hitting on us. Also it's like having a girl friend that still has the mind of a guy. And most gay guys aren't as scandalous as girls these days.
2007-01-27 17:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
In Europe it is more desirable worry-free. If a guy is in good structure, i do not see what's incorrect with it. I hate it even as people sneer at someone who outfits otherwise only because they're from yet otherwise of life... what makes one human being's way of life more desirable constructive to a distinct? it is only boastful. there became a guy at my college that used to positioned on speedos to bypass surfing in, and all and sundry can make relaxing of him and phone him names like "Speedo guy." I continually concept that became puerile of them. then again... it does make me sense a tad uncomfortable to work out a guy's junk. I positioned on bikinis, it is authentic. yet... i don't have a penis. yet when the guy is comfortable with the speedos, then fantastic.
2016-10-16 05:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by hanrahan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be themselves around gay men with out the threat of us hitting on them. They can have an innocent good time.
2007-01-27 18:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋