Ever since i have started going out with my girl friend i have been getting these love fealings i've never had before, i keep wishing i could of met her a long time, ago and if i think about a day in the past of some thing i was doing i wonder what was she doing that day? every place i have been to with her makes me go there when im not with her cause i know she has been there. she went to my school the other day we walked over there and she sat on the swing and we talked for a while, now every day i go to that swing and sit on it cause she has been on it. i think about her 24/7 and i wanna be with her and every thing i do i dont wanna do it or see it alone i want her to be there with me. can any one tell me if this is normal and what its called? and thank you for taking your time to read this please EVERY ONE respond for me.
2007-01-27 17:23:15 · 11 answers · asked by Lance 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
thats a hard one it sounds like there are strong feelings but also some obsessive feelings. sort them out and clear your mind and you will know exactly how you are feeling. good luck
2007-01-27 17:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When you're not with her, you want to be close to her. This is the same feeling anyone gets when they are in love or "infatuated" with someone. You want to touch the things they've touched, be where they've been, look at or see the same things they've seen, see where they live, visit the same places. Infatuation is like an idolization, like you worship the ground she walks on and want to be with her every minute. You probably are relatively young and it is perfectly normal. When you get older love becomes more realistic and you are less apt to feel this way again. Your feelings will/should quiet down after a year or two if you are still together but be careful you don't scare her off. In the meantime try to interest yourself in something to take your mind off of her because you may end up heartbroken, but then again it's all a part of growing up....
2007-01-27 17:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Incognito 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Athough sweet, it is a bit extream. This is the stage of love that is infatuation. It s the part of falling in love everybody likes so much. However if it goes too far, it can become too much. Enjoy it while it lasts.
2007-01-27 17:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Baker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
INFATUATION!!!!!!!!And be careful. There comes a time when it is down right creepy. You sound young, maybe this will be your first "love" experience. How does she feel about you? Also, you might want to slow it down, she might not be wanting this kind of attention.
2007-01-27 17:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think this could be unhealthy you need to find some hobbies and give the girl some space
2007-01-27 17:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by steffi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are in love. It is normal unless you become so obsessed that you can't sleep eat or do anything else
2007-01-27 18:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by hobo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bro, your suffering from obsession. in order for a relationship to work you have to have your "together time" and "time apart" don't ruin a good thing.
2007-01-27 17:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll say it is normal and you are in love.Have fun.Be good.
2007-01-27 17:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Puppy_love
2007-01-27 18:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is obsessive compulsive disorder
2007-01-27 17:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋