am a passive man. I especially cannot say no to any women. When I wear spandex and lycra, I want to be spit on, put in pain by the woman's feet and licking anything she would tell me too. Oh I have a fantasy of being a cuckhold too, cleaning up, ya know. Right now, I would give anything for this lifestyle, my paychecks every week, all chores and work that needed to be done, I mean everything, making her life completly comfortable while only asking for some moderate physical and mental abuse . Should I keep on looking for a woman to do this for me for it was my lifelong dream or do I seek help and try to erase these feelings through therapy? I now am going for a college degree, have a job that pays well and I am committed to always better myself. This is the only thing that ever stood in my way. I'm 28 and spent the last 12 years of my life pleasing women in "mostly vanilla relationships"
2007-01-27 17:08:06 · 8 answers · asked by Kevin S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please educate me on what a "cuckhold" is and a "vanilla relationship?" I do apologize for my ignorance on that one. But as for your desires, I don't know anyone who willingly in their right mind wants to be treated like crap. I am no psychiatrist nor do I specialize in phsycosematic problems but I do believe you have some self esteem issues and yes you should seek counseling. I know you strongly desire to be treated this way, but everything gets old after awhile.
2007-01-27 17:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for identifying what you want. I know someone who is completely unsatisfied in vanilla relationships. He wants a woman as a slave/submissive. It's not the usual route but you may find the situation you crave. There are websites and personals for stuff like this ya know, read up and make careful decisions on who you meet with. Don't JUMP into anything, feel out the situation before you sign yourself over. Good luck with your search - I hope you find what makes you very happy.
2007-01-27 17:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for therapy, Please! Being passive often results in being angry in the end, get help and both you and the person you are in a relationship with will gain.
2007-01-27 17:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Joy K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever makes you happy. sounds like you are not hurting anyone.
It's not the life I would choose, but whatever floats your boat.
2007-01-27 17:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say your in college? and you always try to better yourself? GOD that's scary
2007-01-27 17:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Skinz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever you want to do and you think is better for you good luck
2007-01-27 17:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Christine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok........just enjoy it......but don't waste you money you need that to stay afloat in life.......but if you sick of it get treated and identifythe root cause of what you are feeling.....
2007-01-27 17:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by easy e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
therapy may not be enmough, have you considered suicide?
2007-01-27 17:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋