2007-01-27 17:02:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You quit giving blowjobs..and I'm not cheating on you honey, I'm just getting something from someone that you won't give. I can't cheat you out of something you don't want.
2007-01-27 17:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
there is nothing you are doing I'm 100 percent sure. I say this because if a person is a cheater that is what he/she will do. If a person has values and morales that is how they will conduct themselves. i don't care what may happen between me and my husband, I am going to stay true to who I am. If your husband is cheating he needs no excuse, it's who he is and no matter how good you may be, he's going to do it anyway. Don't let his scummy ways make you doubt who you are as a person. I hope you get rid of the bum and find a true man.
God bless you and good luck.
2007-01-28 01:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat either because they don't love you, or they are going through some type of changes with themselves that they want to be with a younger woman. Or, it could be that you are not meeting his needs. It could be many things to why he is cheating.
You may consider on reading, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" or "The Proper Care of Feeding of Marriage". That's if you two want to save your marriage or seek counseling, but if not, you need to ask him to leave.
2007-01-28 01:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you cheating on him, flirting, being a slob? It doesn't really matter his cheating is not your fault. He is not ready for marriage. You have two choices...Tell him it's marriage counseling or you're gone or just go. You don't deserve to be cheated on, nobody does. He will keep it up until you put a stop to it. One strong warning..he will try to blame it on you... don't buy into his lies!!
2007-01-28 01:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blaming the victim? It is not you it is his own issues. He needs to work them out. You need to decide if you are going to stay in the relationship or ship out. (I would be packing my bags or kicking him out ). You can try counseling, communication is the key. If you want to save your marriage ...better yet, if he wants to save the marriage, (without trust, I'm not so sure) he needs to stop the cheating, get counseling, REPENT and work at gaining your trust back. It all depends on how long you have been married, what you have vested, are there any children...etc
2007-01-28 01:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by lilianainthedesert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to be doing anything wrong for many men to cheat. Sit and talk with him about either he tells you why he feels he has to cheat and stops or how you can make a divorce amicable!!
2007-01-28 01:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your doing any wrong if he was a good man he would talk to you about an apparent problem and if he uses you as the excuse it just shows he is a loser not worth havinfg around he should have talked to you before he acted
2007-01-28 01:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by rthroener 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is looking for something that he isn't getting at home. Do you sit at home in the evening in your pj's watching tv, or do you slip into something sexy and seduce your husband? Because this is what he is getting on the side.
If you don't want you man shooting his gun after he leaves the house, you need to unload his gun before he leaves......get what I'm saying?
2007-01-28 01:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont you think that since he cheating on you that this
is our fault, that bull. there are many reason that people cheat
and i belive that it has nothing to do with what going on at home.
just tak to him and find out what going on. and then do what is
best for you. good luck.
2007-01-28 01:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now all you are doing wrong is putting up with him
2007-01-28 05:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by tanja3703 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋