My husband has a condom in his billfold.Should I be concerned.?

Question

He isnt hiding it,He has shown it to me. I completely trust him ,I have no reason not to .He has never lied to me .what would you do?

Answer 1

the question is, do you two use condoms? if not, then THERE'S a reason to worry!

Answer 2

Do you hear yourself,I can't believe that you really trust this man.First off lets not forget that he is a man and all men will cheat if they think they can get away with it .You are in for a rude awakening like all women.Do you have any idea how many women have said (MY HUSBAND WOULD NEVER CHEAT ON ME) 90% of all men have or will given the chance they will cheat not unless your one of the lucky ones and has a husband that doesn't cheat.only because he can't find someone to cheat with.Look around you look at some of the most beautiful women in the world and every single one of those woman has had their hearts broke by their bf or husbands.Where does that leave us older or less attractive women.So please don't ever say you no he wouldn't because I'm here to tell you that he would if he hasn't already.You said he isn't hiding it from you,cleave man your husband what makes you think that the rubber is the same one and not a new one .Has it occurred to you that he has a supply of them hidden somewhere maybe hidden in the truck of his car. I would be looking real hard for them if I were you.Could it be that you don't want to no.

Answer 3

I have a question..Do you guys use condoms when u have sex?? I know ur married but maybe ur not ready to have a baby yet or whatever. If yall don't use condoms and what i stated is not the case as far as making a baby then yes I would question him as to way he has a condom in his wallet. To me if we are monogamous then he doesn't need a condom in his wallet. Check the Dates on the Condom if the date is 2008 and above thats fairly new and don't looks right to me..I kno u should trust ur husband but don't be a fool obvisouly u feel something isnt right u asked for advice!

Answer 4

Well it sounds like to me that you are in denial and making excuses for his behavior. If he isn't hiding it, and if he has shown it to you, and if you completely trust him, ask yourself why are you concerned about whether or not he has a condom in his wallet, if there is another answer to that question other than "I'm not" then you have to seek out the answer within yourself.

Answer 5

This doesn't sound good at all! I wouldn't trust him if I were you. The only reason a guy carries a condom around in his wallet is that he is keeping it there in case he gets an opportunity to cheat on you. You should ask him why he has it and what he intends to do with it!

Answer 6

By him telling you is only reverse pyschology! First of all, why is it in his bill fold? Just because he showed you or told you where he is keeping it doesn't mean he doesn't have intention's on using it else where.

Please, listen to your gut instinct..if you feel no threat by him having it on him then leave it alone...but it is obvious to me that it bothers you because if it didn't, you would not be on this board asking if you should be concerned!

If he is not using the condom with you...then he is using it on someone out side of your marriage...I guess by him telling you that he keeps it in his bill fold, is suppose to make you trust him..men play games like this...use your common sense and do not play the denial role as most wives do and end up being the last to know..tell him..if he is cheating..he is out the door...

Answer 7

How long has it been there? If it was there FOREVER then no prob. Just tell him he needs to take it out. If he just started putting it in there.... he showed it to you to see if you would still trust him. he is probably thinking about cheating. Do you two have sex with a condom? if no... then he is already thinking of people he wants to have sex with. Ask him to tell you the absolute truth! It may hurt but it is better to fix it now. You cannot trust anyone 100%. I learned that the hard way. They are still people. People do stupid things!!

Answer 8

Sweetheart, you know how it is when you grab an umbrella when it MIGHT rain? It might or might not, but the important thing is that you are prepare for either case. Cupcakes, your hubby is doing the same thing but is not rain that is hoping for. Pumpkin, this guy is hoping he is will get lucky where ever this cat is hanging out. Work, bar or some unknown place. If I were you, thank god, I will sit him down and have a straight conversation. If he is going around your answers, then I will start divorce proceedings at this very hour!11

Answer 9

If my husband was caring around a condom, I would definetly be concerned. I mean why would he need it if he was only having sex with you ? Not enless you two use them.. Think about it honey, the men you really think you can trust are the ones that seem to hurt ya.

Answer 10

Are you on the pill? If so, he shouldn't have a condom in his bifold. Perhaps he's shown it to you see if he can get away with it? A test to see what he can get away with? He may be testing the waters. Perhaps you need to confront him about this? If he doesn't give you a straight honest answer. Simply tell him "Don't make a fool out of me... I won't tolerate it."

Answer 11

I am sorry but what exactly was his explanation for the condom in his wallet? A sudden passion for balloon animals? Lunch hour water balloon antics with the office set? Sweetheart, you do not carry a condom in your wallet unless you are planning to use it for sex. end of story.

Does he use condoms with you? If he doesnt your a walking timebomb for an std. Please leave him before you contract something deadly or that will ruin your life.