why does it hurt when i have sex?

Answer 1

You may have a medical condition which would require you to see a physician. However, many nominally normal women have pain on intercourse because of insufficient lubrication. Normal lubrication is produced by estrogen, so many women lose their lubrication at the time of menopause, resulting in sex becoming more painful. Hormone replacement or a gel/lubricant can solve this problem.

Answer 2

That's a very, very general question for a very broad topic. So, this could be anything, absolutely anything, from you're not sufficiently aroused for penetration, to he's bumping your cervix, to vaginismus, to previous abusive relationships, to any number of illnesses or infections.

I'm giving you some links that may or may not be helpful. but you must ABSOLUTELY MUST see your doctor. You can start with your gp, and if s/he feels that it's necessary to do so, you can be referred to a GYN. However, must gp's can handle many gynecological problems, so start there.

Answer 3

Since you didn't give much detail, it could be any number of things. Is it burning pain, or internal (almost lower abdomen) pain? It could be a physical/medical condition, but could simply be caused by lack of lubrication, or... (trying to think of how to put this nicely)... him just being a little too rough?

Answer 4

there may be a lot of reasons like the penis may be too big for which your pussy is unusual, also it may be due to dryness . you can lubricate your pussy & also consult a gynecologist.

Answer 5

Maybe you need more foreplay to give chance to your body to secrete more lube, that or... ask your partner to be more gentle. Or.... use some lube... or... if your partner is "well provided" ask him not tu push it so much.

Answer 6

never had sex..but i heard its supposed to hurt badd!!!! sorry but get used to it i guess..it should get better everyt ime =]

Answer 7

He's too big.