She's going to go to my school next year(year 7)! And all of my friends are friends with her(though they don't hang with her and i have never seen them talk to her) and she was swearing at me on the internet and all that and i'm afraid that she'll turn them against me. This girl is also really big and fat and could hurt me easily. I DON'T want to get in a fight and i DON'T want to talk to her!!! The reason she hates me is because someone tod her that i said i was better than her at something... Which isn't true at all, but she doesn't believe me. What if we're in the same class? She was **Really really** mean to me! She said she's going to hurt me and she said all this stuff about me being a b***** and a s**** and i am freaking out, even though this happened weeks ago! By the way, school starts in 2 days, as i live in Australia. Help? I really need to calm down, but it's hard when you know that someone wants to strangle you to death..
2007-01-27 16:41:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
By the way, this girl has LOTS of friends and one of them was swearing at me, helping her.
2007-01-27 16:47:23 · update #1
This girl will remember me. She knows exactly who i am. And i don't want to fight because i have always had a clean record and i want to do well in school. And if i did fight she would absolutely flatten me...
2007-01-27 16:51:30 · update #2
This happened a long time ago. These are empty threats.Just learn to forgive and forget.But if she is threatening you verbally at school then you must tell the teacher.School usually takes threats of violence very seriously and she could get into big trouble like getting suspended.For the record we live in Australia too and my daughter who is in year 7 too starts school tomorrow.Best of luck for the school year.
2007-01-27 23:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres a list of things:
1. If those people were really your friends they would stand up for you, and not hang out with her.
2. People like that are messed up on the inside anyway. She's so angry and full of ****, that she wants to take it out on someone.
3. Misery loves company
4. Talk to someone about this. You shouldn't have to go through this alone.
5. And if the school dosn't help, then go to yur mom. And if that dosn't work, it's time to go to another school if it gets to bad.
The same thing happend to me. People cursed at me, hit me, spit on me. threw batteries at me on the bus, all that stuff. She seems all bark and no bite. Stand up for yourself, dont let her push you around. Well that's it. Sorry if this wasnt much help, and I hope you do ok in the land down under...I just had to say that.
2007-01-28 04:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Echo♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd watch your back. Bullying is growing fast among teenage girls. Are you a pacifist? Do you not know HOW to fight or defend yourself, or do you just not believe in fighting? One good punch to the throat and that girl will leave you alone... if it comes down to that, which I hope it doesn't!
Tell an adult. Just tell someone who can help you make a better decision. Just don't be afraid of school, and learn to defend yourself.
2007-01-28 00:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by madjennyvane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. It is hard to make someone like you but don't ever turn your back when she is around because she will pounce on you! Just be nice to her and maybe she will start to feel like you are not so bad. You don't have to talk to her or fight with her. Do not talk to your friends about her or even mention to anyone that you are scared of her or anything about her at all!!!! Then she will not even notice you!
2007-01-28 00:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by MyOpinionMatters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It dont matter how big she is! dont let her get over your time as long as you stand up for yourself then you aint lossin the fight. but if she do say something to you just be like grow up and stop picken on someone cause you thinks you can flatten them! dont let her know your worried but dont talk sh*t about her and hope she dont hear it, just keep your mouth closed when it comes to her and one day she will relise your mature and shes childish
2007-01-28 01:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her, be nice to her, and love her anyways. She must be angry and hurting inside. Eventually love will break through whatever anger she holds inside. She will probably turn out to be your best friend if you do.
2007-01-28 00:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell a faculty member like a teacher or something...
I dont know what else you can do unless you fight her fat ass.
2007-01-28 00:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by The Boy Who Cried Wolf 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can I ask, are you going to Fairvale/Bonnyrigg/Canley Vale High School if you are please tell me at Duck_Killer_Jayson@hotmail.com I live in Australia, New South Wales, Canley Heights yeah
2007-01-28 03:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened online and a long time ago. Don't worry about it. She may not even remember you or realize who you are.
2007-01-28 00:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by jjc92787 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh!! stay calm, and if your friends are truly your friends, they would never turn against you! try to stay away from her and avoid her as much as possible! i wish you the best, i know you are doing whats right!
2007-01-28 00:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by 1tuffcookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋