There are loads of groups and boards for cheating spouses and cheated-on spouses. Why doesn't anyone do something for the poor woman who got her heart broken too?
2007-01-27 16:37:02 · 18 answers · asked by Bastet's kitten 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because to close minded people, her role is not socially acceptable, and that's crap. I think most of these situations are based on real feelings, so do you go for what could possibly be the one, or do you just live a shuttered llife and ignore your own happiness?
2007-01-27 16:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by daddius42 3 · 5⤊ 4⤋
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2016-11-01 11:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said people are doing something for the poor woman who got her heart broken, the wife. I mean what do you want to talk about in your group. How the wife didn't do this or won't do this or she is a b++ch. Do you want to talk about how much he loves you and wants to be with you. If he really wanted to be with you, he would leave his wife. He is just having his cake and eating it to. You need to find your own man and not already married. And by the way there are some "homewrecker groups" out there. Maybe if you get away from your married man long enough you can find them and you all can sit and talk about your mm's wife. And how you feel cheated.
2007-01-27 18:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by ckamk1995 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
There are some out there, but I think a lot of people are more concerned with the ones who almost lost a family. It also might be hard to come by because they would be possible harrassment a lot by those who were betrayed by their partners.
2007-01-27 16:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for the kind of support that would help you steer clear of such behavior in the future ? If so, then try your local church. Otherwise, if you are just looking for someone to feel sorry for you, help you get back on your feet only for you to repeat what you did, you'll never find it. You may want to start one like the other person said, like on Yahoo groups. I do hope you have learned from this, the same thing will happen again or worse with the next married man if you didn't.
2007-01-27 17:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
the other woman should have thought about the poor broken hearted wife when she was having all that fun stealing someones mate away from them. there isn't too much compassion for the other woman out there, as she was the predator, she was where she shouldn't have been and she showed the wife no compassion so why would she expect to get any back.
2007-01-27 20:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Why should anyone support the other woman. So she can get back up on her feet and do some more home wrecking hmmm?
It's the fact that she's done something very selfish, low character, and has no respect for marriage; perhaps this is why society doesn't show very little sympathy.
2007-01-27 17:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
Because she doesn't deserve them. (neither does the cheating spouse by the way but cheaters usually go with their spouses to counseling to get the marriage back on track). Why would she be considered a "poor" woman when she CHOSE to have a relationship with a married man? When you CHOOSE to put yourself in that position you've got no one to blame but yourself.
2007-01-27 16:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 5⤋
the other woman is seen as the perpetrator not the victim...even if the man is the cause of the infidelity
2007-01-27 16:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, sleeping with a married man/woman is kind of asking for the trouble you get. I'm sure the groups exist, your just not going to get too much sympathy from too many people.
2007-01-27 16:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 4⤋