am i supposed to be feeling anything good when we do dry sex..because he feeels good but i tell him i dont feel anything...basically im doing it for him i like when he feels nice =]
2007-01-27 16:16:21 · 17 answers · asked by icecreampie6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Look,sex should be MUTUALLY pleasurable.
Thats so nice that your doing it to satisfy his selfish needs,but where does that leave you?
Wake up call: He's using you AND you are letting him!
2007-01-27 16:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mark K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is dry sex? If you are talking about intercourse and you are not lubricated then I'm confused. I'm not saying you're wrong. I'm just confused. I guess because if I'm having sex then I am lubricated. And there is no choice in the matter. And if that is what you're talking about then I wouldn't stay with the guy. He is supposed to get pleasure out of pleasing you. Doesn't sound like he cares about that. You're worth more! Let him go.
2007-01-27 16:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
rip each others clothes like wild animals as soon as you get the test results, cause really thats all that keeping you from doing it. Then later you can go the romantic route when you plan it out, but planning it out for the first time takes the fun out of the deal (specially with the std checks). at least have sex with condoms the next time you both feeling the urge it. If you want to get some mad points buy some condoms and next time you getting freaking pull them out and i bet you he will just flip out. youre not shooting a romantic movie scene here so stop TRYING to make it overly special cause you will just be following a schedule.. at 5:00 place hand on boob... 5:15 light candle.. bla bla.. not cool.
2016-05-24 07:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must always put your pleasure first. A man who is not willing to please you in bed is selfish. The long term won't be good if he gets his way all the time in bed. Dry sex is not healthy to the inner walls of a female,and maybe you stay dry because you're really not into him anyway.
2007-01-27 16:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are bf and gf, the two of you shouldn't even have any type of sex until you two are at the age to get married.
Your boyfriend doesn't respect you for wanting to do any type of sex with you. You don't respect your body by giving it away to someone who is not respectful of 'you'. So don't let him use you like that, unless he is committed to want to marry you first.
Do the right thing and start respecting yourself!
2007-01-27 16:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why yall are doing it any way but its a good thing you care about how he feels. hes probably afraid to have sex and if you dont feel anything tell him. and most of all please DO NOT start having sex you will regret it later.
2007-01-27 16:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and stop having sex just because he enjoys it. You should be liking it too. Don't let him use you.
2007-01-27 16:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU DOING THINGS THAT YOU DONT LIKE OR WANT TO DO DRY SEX IS PAINFUL.STOP DOING IT THAT WAY.IF HE WANTS TO HAVE DRY SEX WHICH IS THE FIRST I HAVE EVER HEARD THAT A DUDE ACTUAL LIKE TO HAVE SEX THIS WAY-TELL HIM TO FIND A GIRL THAT LIKE HAVING REGULAR DRY SEX BECAUSE YOU DONT AND WHY BE WITH SOMEONE THAT WILL CONTINUE TO WANT THIS FROM YOU KNOWING THAT YOU DONT LIKE IT!
2007-01-27 17:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by K.B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all good and well that you like making him feel good, but doing something that you don't like and more importantly him letting you do something he knows you don't like just to please him is not right.
Just like you're giving into his needs he should do that same for you.
Sex isn't about just one person. You need to make him compromise.
Btw, you might not know it, but you are putting yourself in danger of STDs and messing up your insides doing this.
2007-01-27 16:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got a good understanding towards your partner fullfilling the wishes for him only for his happiness this will make a great sex in further as per the ideas of kamasuthra sex keep trying he will fullfill your feelings.
2007-01-27 16:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by jaikumaar6 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋