my gf recently became friends with this guy. he now really likes her and asked her to go to the cinema with him, like just the two of them, my gf accepted and their gonna go next week, she says shes going with him as friends and wont let him try anything on her. when she told me this i got really jealous (even though i trust her), im not worried anything would happen, im just wondering if its totally apropriate and how many bf's would let their gf go to the cinema with a guy she just met and who fancies her. i wouldnt go to the cinema alone with a girl i just met, it wouldnt feel right just the two of us and without my gf being there. am i just being jealous and possessive of her, or is this normal?
2007-01-27 16:14:17 · 7 answers · asked by sethforce9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, honestly everyone who does this is not out to be dishonest it is very possible that she is just friends with him. I have alot of male friends always have so maybe she is like this too. Talk to her and let her know how you feel and hopefully you and her can work it out together. If it bothers you then you do need to be up front with her and tell her.
2007-01-31 15:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be jealous. But it's not a nice feeling is it? I wonder why she's going with the other guy? To make you jealous? To pay you back for something you did? didn't do? said? didn't say? maybe she is not taking your relationship as serious as you are. If you are both mature enough to talk this out you should hear what she has to say before you take another girl to the cinema. Two wrongs don't make a right.
2007-01-27 16:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by sinned 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad about looking through her phone. I mean, yes it's wrong, but what you saw is pretty bad! That's definitely borderline cheating.. or she's just about to. It's going to be hard to approach her (which you definitely need to do) because you will have to admit to searching through her phone. Don't lie about that. Just be honest and open to her now about that. Talk her down, privately, and in person, about it and tell her something along the lines of: "After that conversation we had, I became real confused as to your situation with that 'other guy'. I'm sorry but I did look through your phone because I was concerned. I regret taking away your privacy/trust but that doesn't excuse what I found. I saw you talking about [mention what was said in the texts]. What's going on?" You can word it however you like but you have to keep in mind that she will probably get reallllll pissed that you looked through her phone. So you have to avoid any actual arguments. Remember, you want to confront her with what you found while apologizing for looking through her phone. Don't let it turn into an argument about trust and make sure you guys are both calm about it.
2016-05-24 07:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask her how she would feel if you started going to the cinema with a girl you just met and you were "just friends" with? If she says she would be okay with it - then make her prove it! Find a girl and ask her out. She how your girlfriend feels then!
2007-01-27 16:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that your girl has issues dude. think about it. Why wouldn't your girl take you along with her. Doesn't he love you? Or does he want to be alone with her. OR is it that you dont want to go with her and this guy. Try going along with her. IF it was me, and I didn't mind going with her, then I would go. Whats the harm in you coming with her. But if i had to work, then I would some of my other friends to go along with her. dont tell her that she should go with your friends, just tell her that your friend is making plans to go to the same movie, and if she wants to take the guy and go with your friends. Problem solved, you know the guy wont try anything. I can trust my girl with another guy, but i dont trust the guy alone with my girl. What if he does something she has no control over. Make sure he doesn't do anything to hurt your girl.
2007-01-27 16:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's totally not normal...maybe she just got bored with you...not to be mean...well maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel about this...and if she simply doesn't listen to you then the best thing to do is move on....or you can go to the cinema with another girl....
2007-01-27 16:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by WOW! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is playing you for a fool. Dump her, get a girlfriend who is strickly your own. If she cared for you, she would not even consider another guy.
2007-01-27 16:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by m c 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋