okay ill be straightup about this, im gay. but i cant tell whether my best friend is gay or not. there is some cles that give me an idea that he is, like when were hangin out alone and he likes to talk about getting erections and talks about his penis around me. i no this sounds wierd, but when i get erections around him, he likes to give me a "ball tap", but i think hes jus trying to feel me, what do you think is he gay or not, im scared to ask him.
2007-01-27 16:12:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
no my friend doesnt know im gay, but im so scared to ask him, and i dont want to admit im gay to him untill i find out if he is gay or not
2007-01-27 16:26:19 · update #1
Being a guy and all I believe he is curious and wants to foul around (like most guys do).
2007-01-27 19:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by hotteenick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're afraid to ask, say something like have been
with a gay person, do you wanna be with gay people,
or what do you think of the gay people . .
and see what he says. .
Jokingly say you wanna be gay for a change, and ask
him if he wanna be in your club . . If he's not interested,
there you go, you found out without a risk. He might
suspect that you are, but he can only suspect.
Good luck . . . on your dreams ..
2007-01-27 17:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, been there done that. Hate to say it but the easiest and best thing to do is just ask.
2007-01-27 16:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by Zach S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him first or you can strip in front of him see whether he get hard when he saw your naked body.
2007-01-27 16:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may know already and is just waiting for you to talk to him...you may be surprised that he knows already...but, just in case, you also need to be ready for the rash of crap that may come your way if he doesn't know and tells all of your mutual friends and then you get more crap...good luck
2007-01-27 16:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask the guy. Don't worry. Be cool about it.
2007-01-27 16:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your freind know youre gay? if he does, just talk about it and just ask him.
2007-01-27 16:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by kino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is your friend....just ask him.
2007-01-27 16:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋