maybe it's a crazy coincidence but thinks don't add up/ I strongly feel that my spouse is cheating on me. Should I go with my own intusion. He goes on date sites lies and then tells me he loves me. I often can't get a hold of him and he got in trouble at work for laughng at a joke with acouple of other males the military doesn't put up with adultary. should I listen to myself or what ?????
2007-01-27 16:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by envisiondreaming 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would invest in a private investigator and a key logger program for the compuer, the you can have access to his passwords and every word typed on that computer !! Dont worry these things will eventually come out ... good luck
2007-01-27 16:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you think he is, he may well be. Sit and talk with him about why he goes to these sites and if he doesn't have a good answer, if it continues that you can't get a hold of him, if you ontinue to have these feelings, move out for a while, and if he doesn't give you very good reasons o come back, get a divorce!!
2007-01-28 00:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Borrow a car he doesn't know or even get a friend to go with you, put on baseball hats with your hair tucked under and follow the sucker sometime. Your intuition usually is right. Going on date sites is a very good clue.
2007-01-28 00:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
collect more evidence. Write down all his personal activities. See if there is unexplained block of time, appearing consistently.
If you have money, hire a PI. Otherwise, ask a friend or a relative to follow him around during his suspicious activities.
Good Luck
2007-01-28 00:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by ben c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we can feel there is something amiss, something wrong, that we can't put our fingers on, it's called our intuition, when we can't see something with our five senses, we can always count on our intuition to tell us the truth, when there is a problem in our life. if u have problems getting hold of him, and he is on dating sites, i personally would be very worried. yes u are probably right, woman seem to have that sixth sense and we know when something is out of kilter even if we haven't seen it or heard it. we still know it is happening. believe in yourself, pay attention to what u are feeling.
2007-01-28 06:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when things don't add up, there is almost allways a reason. Tell him that you won't put up with it, and check behind him, if he's cheating you'll find something solid. and while it is a crime in the military, it happens all the time.
2007-01-28 00:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your husband and ask him why he visits those sites. Tell him you really want to know the truth from him.
Just tell him how you feel.
2007-01-28 00:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
May I suggest... www.cheaters.com
2007-01-28 05:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by lovelife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow you intuition
2007-01-28 00:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already know the answer to your question you just want it validated....if you have to ask, he is.....
2007-01-28 00:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋