If this shows what time I wrote this it is LATE. well I am 17 and my boy friend came over without my parent's knowing. we want to have sex but don't want kids? HELP
2007-01-27 16:05:46 · 9 answers · asked by Marcia D 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Then don't have sex. Abstinence is the only 100% effective method of birth control. If you're not ready for the consequences, then you're not ready for sex.
2007-01-27 16:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Aaliyah & Natalie's Mommy 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you do not want kids then...... you have to use protection and make sure that he uses it. Some guys will try to take the condom off without you even knowing. get on birth control a.s.a.p it took me until I had 2 kids by the time I was 23 to realize that "Okay condoms are an issue so let me get on b.c." If it makes you sick (try a low estrigen pill). Girl, Just make sure you stress to yourself and your partner that you don't want children. Live realistic so you are not ashamed or hindered by your choices. :)
2007-01-28 02:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by nluvwitu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have sex unless you're ready to handle what might come of it. If you plan on doing it, look into birth control methods, and get condoms. Protect yourself from both pregnant AND STD's. Remember no birth control is 100%, so even with it a baby might be a consquence.
2007-01-27 16:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only guarantee is abstinence. but if you want to have sex you should get on birth control AND use a condom.
pulling out, sex on your period, anal sex, you CAN get pregnant doing all of these things so BE CAREFUL. use protection every time
2007-01-27 16:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by caitlinval 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only safe way not to have kids and not get an STD is Abstinence!!!!
2007-01-27 16:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by spencerluck2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want kids either dont have sex or use some type of birth control... good luck with it
2007-01-27 16:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arent old enough to handle everything that can come from sex (pregnancy, std's) then do not do it.
2007-01-27 16:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by J&A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing to do is to not do anything or you can use protection but sometimes they break....
2007-01-27 16:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by sugababy652 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding???
2007-01-27 16:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋