When she started to talk to another girl they have been best friends. Now she has been with her at school all the time and doesnt really talk 2 me much. I dont want to lose her, we have such a close bond. What can i do?
2007-01-27 15:58:04 · 13 answers · asked by saau2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing...These things happen, you are growing apart....
2007-01-27 16:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to talk to her. If you and her were best friends then you should be able to talk to one another. But you might need to let her go a little and it wouldn't do you any harm either to expand your circle of friends more too. At your age, you all are growing and changing and discovering the world and all the different interests out there and I hate to tell you this, but you will grow away from some friends and some friends will grow away from you, but in return you will make new and interesting, fascinating people. That doesn't mean the people who grow away from you are bad people and that doesn't mean they don't like you as a person, it's just their interests have changed, that's all dear. :)
2007-01-27 16:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by tinagoomba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's really your best friend, you should go talk to her about this. Ask her if she still wants to be friends, because it doesn't sound like she seems that close to you anymore. Try inviting her over to your house more often and just hang out together, hopefully she'll realise all the fun that she's been missing out on!
2007-01-27 16:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes there is really nothing u can do when two girls have alot in common. I mean girls share there feelings together. Girls need girl best friends. Sometimes its the girls that girls have best friends with. The same with guys. IF you had a guy friend, both of you can hang out together and talk about girls, and play video games. or just hang out. I think if you really like this girl, you should tell her, dont be shy or you'll lose her. tell her you like her; if you like her more than a friend let her know. Why dont you just hang with her and her new best friend. Make it a group hang out. Theres nothing wrong with hanging out with two girls instead of one girl that you used to hang with. Get to know her friend, and you will be in her circle of friends.
2007-01-27 16:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens and it doesn't mean you have less of a bond. She's found a new friend. Try hanging with the two of them and perhaps you can become a best trio.
2007-01-27 16:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a girl, how for example she could talk to you about girl stuff:boys, dating, kissing, periods.You should let her have girl friends, but if you don't want to loose her completely, go somewhere, talk to her, if you have any chance.dont tell her that you don't want to lose her, just say that you miss her, and you haven't spend a lot of time with her, or something like that.ask her for some advice, or just anything
2007-01-27 16:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, if hes your pal hes your pal. look at mum and dad, some are very almost 10 years older then a number of their acquaintances. Its no longer the age that concerns, its the guy. if hes your bestfriend, i settle for that and decide for it. its a three year distinction and if all and sundry is going to choose you, than i'm going to choose those people. save doing what your doing.
2016-11-01 11:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you miss her. She may not realize that you mind that you're not as close. Make sure it doesn't sound like a gripe and is more like "I miss you, let's do something together and catch up".
Good luck.
2007-01-27 16:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by TJTB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know she is important to u, tell her u miss her but do not push, give her her some space, she deserves to meet other people
2007-01-27 16:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by jp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
peoples, needs, change, and perhaps hers have, can you not accept that she needs more than one friend in her life, there will come a day when you will have more than one friend as well
2007-01-27 16:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAINLY WHAT I WOULD DO IS TELL HER WHATS ON MY MIND ABOUT THE FRINDSHIP AND IF IT DOES NOT WORK FIND SOME ONE ELSE TO BE YOUR BESTFRIEND AND I GARENTEE SHE WILL WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND AGIN AND IF SHE DO DONT LET HER BVACK IN YOU HEART TRUST I
2007-01-27 16:05:38 · answer #11 · answered by JAZZYPHAE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋